+ 1 But it would help significantly if high schools and colleges were actually transparent and told students and parents earlier that is required for top schools is highest rigor, near perfect grades (from a school whose grading they trust, not fake 100 validictorians BS), plus SAT and AP scores to confirm the GPA and then either EC's beyond the ordinary or some Lifetime Movie level childhood trauma story. |
Ugh, well OP take comfort in knowing that your son is well prepared for college. I am crossing my fingers and toes for you for the waitlist. Please complain about the counseling to whoever you can in administration, maybe you can help another student. |
Thank you so much. That’s a good idea, I will ask the school about the counseling. |
Oh and I forgot to add that my parents are good for a full four year payment of $90k per year and I’m willing to ED if you’ll take me. Does that help? |
| Did OP ever share the student’s intended major? |
Another thought is he could take a gap year and reapply next year to a more balanced list. I concur with smaller schools that look more holistically. I too have a kid - also a boy - with much higher test scores than GPA. It was very hard to put together a list and know where he might fall because those dots in Naviance usually have aligned GPAs and test scores, but he did not. His test score was as high as you can get. His GPA was not. He did very well in the end getting into a reach LAC. |
| White boys with great test scores and iffy GPA must ED to SLACs….you’d be surprised where they might get in! |
Can you say which SLACs he applied to? |
You must have kids at a private school. |
Not always! I have an ADHD girl with a GPA/score mismatch. (3.1uw, 34 ACT) |
| Need to stop banking on high test scores as the path to top schools especially if the grades don't match. A lot of them are holistic and prioritize grades and class rigor. My kid got into most of the schools they applied to (IU Kelley, OSU, UMD, Pitt, Penn State, VT, etc.) with a high GPA and great ECs while not submitting test scores for most of them. I also think that not going to a crazy competitive high school helped along with having a good balanced and realistic list consisting of primarily targets, a couple reaches, and a few safeties. |
These schools are not top schools. |
I am sorry to hear that, OP. Did you apply EA or RD? Last you my kid with similar stats got into both VT and UMD but she applied EA. These days many schools fill most of their classes in EA. |
That's my point. You have to be realistic and not go after only the "top" schools that everyone thinks their child has a good chance at just because they have amazing SAT scores. We had a very practical and balanced list which led to her getting into all her targets and safeties. She got rejected from her 2 reaches (to be expected) which was fine because her favorite schools were targets. |
PP, can you share your list of “school that want that SAT score in their stats”? |