| UVA is top shelf braj |
I’m going to guess a teacher since I’m a teacher. If so, go to JMU. Both are great schools and it really doesn’t matter. Tuition free is worth it! |
At least the UVA grads don’t use a silly woman’s judgmental phrase like “it’s almost comical”. |
| How are the family dynamics? Would it be tough for the oldest to know that they are sacrificing their school choice for their younger siblings? So many times the eldest kid of larger families ends up acting for the betterment of others rather than themselves/their futures. I say this as a someone with 4 kids either in college/recent college grads. Family dynamics is important. If your oldest earned UVA and you can stretch to send them, then maybe you should if it’s what they really want? They may say they’re good with JMU (which is also a great school by the way) but are they really or are they just saying that to make mom and dad feel better? Perhaps the younger sibs can work hard and earn their own opportunities? Or maybe split the amount saved so each gets a sum and then the rest is up to them? Why does the oldest have to make a decision based on their younger sibs? |
Why do you keep misstating JMU’s public university ranking? |
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Yes, it’s crazy. You’re really lucky to be paying in-state tuition for UVA.
College is much more than expected income: the experience/exposure itself is really important. If expected income is the only concern, you don’t even need to spend 4 years going to college! Plenty of blue-color careers pay more than $80-100k (not to mention that’s the top income range according to you)! |
| I would go to UVA, hands down. I'm not a prestige seeker, and I'm poor by NOVA standards, but I would full-pay UVA over full-ride JMU no matter the circumstances. |
+1 Teaching or nursing, go where it is cheapest! |
How are the stats of the younger siblings compared to this kid’s? If they don’t have a viable chance of getting into UVA, you shouldn’t let go of this opportunity. Ranking really doesn’t matter as much when you go below the top ~50, so they can choose the college that gives them most $$$. If the siblings have a better chance of getting into UVA, would they give up the opportunity again if admitted? |
+100 |
| In all honesty there’s no justification for overpaying for a UVA degree when the desired career tops out at $100k after grad school. Any “connections” will be of little or no use. Essentially, your fellow alumni would likely look down on the graduate for their chosen profession. It’s sad but true. |
You're right. Should have said, "It IS comical." Thanks for the correction. |
DO: And what do you contribute other than nit-picking? |
It’s not true. OP has no idea where her child will end up or in what major. 80% of all students change their major at least once. UVA gives the child the greatest springboard in almost every field. If we are talking about in $13,000 in full tuition at JMU, that’s nothing compared to what a UVA experience could give this kid. |
100%. UVA. And no, not a booster, and both of ours picked ivies over UVA in-state, for a much greater differential in $. UVA is indeed a top school that has a large edge over JMU in every field, and 13k is a very small amount to sacrifice for a T5 public/T25 overall. |