I’m so tired of this. As a woman-I wouldn’t just accept my husband saying he didn’t want to try solve his ED with medication. So why should a man accept if a woman says she is going through menopause/some other hormonal thing and that’s that? Without ever taking any steps to make it better? It’s so one sided and unfair. In a marriage you don’t just get to decide you are done with something without considering the other person-that’s simply not how a marriage works. |
I could have written this, except I did not cut the EA, the AP cut it off and moved jobs. It was not just sex I was deprived. I needed someone to desire me, someone to be kind to me, someone to remember my preferences. It was not my love that was destroyed, but my sense of loyalty. If the opportunity arises, I will engage in EA again, not sure about the physical. |
Gross. |
whatever |
Bf I got divorced, went say 4 years wo sex. I’m glad I was faithful, but that was too much, I missed the emotional / physical attachment. I should have done sooner.
In my 50s, had sex twice yesterday w my gf, so yes, I think it is very important/ bonding. |