For those of you who believe that single motherhood is a serious problem that needs to addressed,

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:i don’t see it as a problem. The problem is the lack of money and lack of support single mothers are given.

Single mothers are demonized because they are women.

If most single parents were men they would be given support and accolades.

Misogyny is a lot deeper than people realize.

I think people who think like you are the ones who devalue the intelligence and ability of men to make good decisions. Why don't we encourage men to think ahead, plan, get an education, and consider the kind of person who would make a faithful, kind, stable, and loving spouse/mother of their children?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:i don’t see it as a problem. The problem is the lack of money and lack of support single mothers are given.

Single mothers are demonized because they are women.

If most single parents were men they would be given support and accolades.

Misogyny is a lot deeper than people realize.

I think people who think like you are the ones who devalue the intelligence and ability of women to make good decisions. Why don't we encourage women to think ahead, plan, get an education, and consider the kind of person who would make a faithful, kind, stable, and loving spouse/ father of their children?

Not every mother wants to marry.

[Anonymous]

Pair single moms with incels. Solves two problems at once.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pair single moms with incels. Solves two problems at once.

There are certainly some on the right that would approve of this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mother and baby homes. Ala Irish Catholic infanticide farms.

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Absolutely. It’s a sin to use birth control or have an early abortion but it’s okay for a nun to smother an infant who cries too much. It’s the Christian way.

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Anonymous wrote:All male newborns DNA should be in a data bank and every child born to a single woman DNA should be checked against DNA data bank. Then father is found and is jailed for nine months--same as gestation period--uoon release, he is responsible for child to age 22.

Let me guess. You're a "liberal" 😀🤣😂

Unlike conservatives, liberals believe in personal responsibility. That includes fathers taking responsibility for their kids.

Really? Lady, you vote for the party that glorifies fatherless upbringing!

Funny, almost every liberal I know has been in a long, happy marriage. Only exception was the Catholic aunt who divorced the abusive drug addict she had to marry when he knocked her up back in the 1980s.

The conservatives I know? Whew. Like a Springer show. Punching down is such a favored past time because their lives are such a joke. Kids are a mess. Multiple baby mammas, drugs everywhere. Real family values crowd.

Where do you live honey?

Great Falls. Why do you ask? Is it different in Stafford?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:All male newborns DNA should be in a data bank and every child born to a single woman DNA should be checked against DNA data bank. Then father is found and is jailed for nine months--same as gestation period--uoon release, he is responsible for child to age 22.

Let me guess. You're a "liberal" 😀🤣😂

Unlike conservatives, liberals believe in personal responsibility. That includes fathers taking responsibility for their kids.

Really? Lady, you vote for the party that glorifies fatherless upbringing!

Funny, almost every liberal I know has been in a long, happy marriage. Only exception was the Catholic aunt who divorced the abusive drug addict she had to marry when he knocked her up back in the 1980s.

The conservatives I know? Whew. Like a Springer show. Punching down is such a favored past time because their lives are such a joke. Kids are a mess. Multiple baby mammas, drugs everywhere. Real family values crowd.

Where do you live honey?

Great Falls. Why do you ask? Is it different in Stafford?

I ask because, to be posting on DCUM, you surely are clueless about DC.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:i don’t see it as a problem. The problem is the lack of money and lack of support single mothers are given.

Single mothers are demonized because they are women.

If most single parents were men they would be given support and accolades.

Misogyny is a lot deeper than people realize.

I think people who think like you are the ones who devalue the intelligence and ability of women to make good decisions. Why don't we encourage women to think ahead, plan, get an education, and consider the kind of person who would make a faithful, kind, stable, and loving spouse/ father of their children?

We can't even prevent school shooters but we can magically make our daughters pick better men?

The only person who can do that is HER father and if he destroys his family, the cycle continues.....

[Anonymous]

Here’s what the Post article says about single mothers. Children can weigh heavily on single mother’s wealth, House and her team found. Single women with children had a median net worth of just $7,000 in 2019, compared to $65,000 for single women without children. (It was a different story for single men: Those with children sacrificed just $2,000 of their overall wealth.)

Men don’t suffer in our society.

[Anonymous]

Forced adoption out to a married couple if mom is unmarried and/or under age 28.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i don’t see it as a problem. The problem is the lack of money and lack of support single mothers are given.

Single mothers are demonized because they are women.

If most single parents were men they would be given support and accolades.

Misogyny is a lot deeper than people realize.

I think people who think like you are the ones who devalue the intelligence and ability of women to make good decisions. Why don't we encourage women to think ahead, plan, get an education, and consider the kind of person who would make a faithful, kind, stable, and loving spouse/ father of their children?

Not every mother wants to marry.

PP here. Please note that I wrote "loving spouse/ father of their children." Married or not, someone "fathered" the woman's child.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i don’t see it as a problem. The problem is the lack of money and lack of support single mothers are given.

Single mothers are demonized because they are women.

If most single parents were men they would be given support and accolades.

Misogyny is a lot deeper than people realize.

I think people who think like you are the ones who devalue the intelligence and ability of men to make good decisions. Why don't we encourage men to think ahead, plan, get an education, and consider the kind of person who would make a faithful, kind, stable, and loving spouse/mother of their children?

To whomever altered my post: This thread was about women and single mothers. Of course, men should be responsible, too; but if they aren't, we have to make good decisions for ourselves and our children.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:i don’t see it as a problem. The problem is the lack of money and lack of support single mothers are given.

Single mothers are demonized because they are women.

If most single parents were men they would be given support and accolades.

Misogyny is a lot deeper than people realize.

I think people who think like you are the ones who devalue the intelligence and ability of women to make good decisions. Why don't we encourage women to think ahead, plan, get an education, and consider the kind of person who would make a faithful, kind, stable, and loving spouse/ father of their children?

Not every mother wants to marry.

No one said they should, but they sure as heck need to know how to parent and support their children if going it alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here’s what the Post article says about single mothers. Children can weigh heavily on single mother’s wealth, House and her team found. Single women with children had a median net worth of just $7,000 in 2019, compared to $65,000 for single women without children. (It was a different story for single men: Those with children sacrificed just $2,000 of their overall wealth.)

Men don’t suffer in our society.

Then why is male life expectancy lower than women? Don’t you consider sickness and death as “suffering”?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Here’s what the Post article says about single mothers. Children can weigh heavily on single mother’s wealth, House and her team found. Single women with children had a median net worth of just $7,000 in 2019, compared to $65,000 for single women without children. (It was a different story for single men: Those with children sacrificed just $2,000 of their overall wealth.)

Men don’t suffer in our society.

Then why is male life expectancy lower than women? Don’t you consider sickness and death as “suffering”?

No death is not suffering. It is an expected event. We all die. And it's lower by 5 years. There are multiple reasons for this difference when comparing drastically average male vs female. One fun theory is at the female immune response is more robust but it also then leads to more autoimmune diagnosis.

The difference in incomes above are more statistically significant than the five-year difference in life expectancy