Men, what's the best thing a woman can do to maximize her attractiveness?

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Anonymous wrote:Dab a little of your own unique scent behind your ears.

What does a blonde put behind her ears to make herself more attractive?

Her ankles.

Ba dum bum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:JDBF

(just don't be fat)

Literally nothing else matters

I see the fat slam thrown around a lot. I don't agree with it but I will say that if a person is attracted to thin people and marries a thin person and that person gains a lot of weight the attraction may fall off a little.

Hopefully the attraction to the INSIDE of the person and the life they have built together will more than make up for it.

There is still no "one size fits all" aka all men being attracted to the same things.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:JDBF

(just don't be fat)

Literally nothing else matters

I see the fat slam thrown around a lot. I don't agree with it but I will say that if a person is attracted to thin people and marries a thin person and that person gains a lot of weight the attraction may fall off a little.

Hopefully the attraction to the INSIDE of the person and the life they have built together will more than make up for it.

There is still no "one size fits all" aka all men being attracted to the same things.

Glad you’ll admit something that men and women on this board agree on over and over. Very magnanimous of you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:JDBF

(just don't be fat)

Literally nothing else matters

I see the fat slam thrown around a lot. I don't agree with it but I will say that if a person is attracted to thin people and marries a thin person and that person gains a lot of weight the attraction may fall off a little.

Hopefully the attraction to the INSIDE of the person and the life they have built together will more than make up for it.

There is still no "one size fits all" aka all men being attracted to the same things.

Glad you’ll admit something that men and women on this board agree on over and over. Very magnanimous of you.

Hope you feel better now.

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Anonymous wrote:If women have any gray hair - keep it colored.

Nothing screams “I do not care how bad I look now - I am just O-L-D!!” than a woman who is letting her gray roots grow in or has that dull, gray dishwater colored hair.

Keeping your grays properly colored (even if it has to be done every ten days or so) shows a man that you care.
It keeps you looking polished and shows that you are not ready yet to let your old age take over you.

However after 65+, you can let your grays show.
Because at that stage of life, everyone and their Mother know that you likely are 💯% gray and that even if you color your mane, your skin will contradict it.

Said no man, ever.



This is written by a woman, as, I suspect, most of these comments.

I doubt it. I'm a man, and I agree with it. Gray hair is how women over 35 say, "I've given up".

I know a guy who told me that he knew it was shallow, but hated that the woman he was dating didn't color her grey hair. She was in late 40s. I said. "yeah, don't ever say that out loud again."

It's not shallow because any woman who has stopped caring about her appearance is guaranteed to have much deeper problems than just her uncared-for appearance. And if she doesn't care about her appearance, how much do you think she will care about you?

Quite the contrary. They're choosing to spend more time on the meaningful things.

+1. I cared about my appearance when I was younger, because I had no meaning or direction in life. Just trying to be pretty. Now I have children, a big job, investments, hobbies, responsibilities, reflection. The appearance thing seems so insignificant in comparison.

Even if you twist yourself into what you think a man wants - thin, fit, feminine, demure, agreeable, not too quiet or outspoken, educated without opinions - is that even you or some false persona?

I’m guessing your sex life has suffered and your husband daydreams about sex with someone who is actually attractive.

I'm guessing you're either a red-pill-poppin' incel or a woman whose self-worth is entirely derived from her sexual attractiveness. Either one is a pretty sad thing to be.

Haha nailed it so perfectly.

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Anonymous wrote:If women have any gray hair - keep it colored.

Nothing screams “I do not care how bad I look now - I am just O-L-D!!” than a woman who is letting her gray roots grow in or has that dull, gray dishwater colored hair.

Keeping your grays properly colored (even if it has to be done every ten days or so) shows a man that you care.
It keeps you looking polished and shows that you are not ready yet to let your old age take over you.

However after 65+, you can let your grays show.
Because at that stage of life, everyone and their Mother know that you likely are 💯% gray and that even if you color your mane, your skin will contradict it.

Said no man, ever.



This is written by a woman, as, I suspect, most of these comments.

I doubt it. I'm a man, and I agree with it. Gray hair is how women over 35 say, "I've given up".

I know a guy who told me that he knew it was shallow, but hated that the woman he was dating didn't color her grey hair. She was in late 40s. I said. "yeah, don't ever say that out loud again."

It's not shallow because any woman who has stopped caring about her appearance is guaranteed to have much deeper problems than just her uncared-for appearance. And if she doesn't care about her appearance, how much do you think she will care about you?

Quite the contrary. They're choosing to spend more time on the meaningful things.

+1. I cared about my appearance when I was younger, because I had no meaning or direction in life. Just trying to be pretty. Now I have children, a big job, investments, hobbies, responsibilities, reflection. The appearance thing seems so insignificant in comparison.

Even if you twist yourself into what you think a man wants - thin, fit, feminine, demure, agreeable, not too quiet or outspoken, educated without opinions - is that even you or some false persona?

I’m guessing your sex life has suffered and your husband daydreams about sex with someone who is actually attractive.

I'm guessing you're either a red-pill-poppin' incel or a woman whose self-worth is entirely derived from her sexual attractiveness. Either one is a pretty sad thing to be.

Haha nailed it so perfectly.

Men answer a question that OP asked and the ladies get all butt hurt.

[Anonymous]

Be a complete freak in the bedroom

[Anonymous]

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Hopefully the attraction to the INSIDE of the person and the life they have built together will more than make up for it.

I'm usually more attracted to a woman after I've been inside her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t get fat
Don’t get fake boobs, fake hair, fake nails, fake lashes, fake tans, fake butts. Fake lips,
Don’t drink
Don’t smoke
Don’t be politically stuck on one side or one issue that you aren’t open to new perspectives
Don’t waste my money buying junk
Don’t wear lots of makeup
Wear clothes that fit
Cook homemade food
Clean the house
Don’t hire someone else to raise our children
Don’t complain
Dont envy others
Shave your legs and pits and wax your moustache
Don’t take forever to get ready
Remember you aren’t always right
Learn to drive
Learn to shut your mouth
Stop being desperate
Lose the cheap perfume
Stop looking like everyone else
Breastfeed our child

So basically, a Stepford wife.
Boy, I'd love to see this guys list right next to this one... se how he matches up to his own wants.
I can only imagine what this troglodyte looks like.

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Hopefully the attraction to the INSIDE of the person and the life they have built together will more than make up for it.

I'm usually more attracted to a woman after I've been inside her.

You win for best response

[Anonymous]

Women: don't be fat, everything else can be accepted
Men: don't be short (<6'), everything else can be accepted

Attraction is simple and easy!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most men I know are attracted to confidence and happiness. Being with a mopey, perpetually pissed off person is not fun for anyone of any gender.

+1.

[Anonymous]

For starters, being an actual woman and not some sort of trasgender degenerate is a plus.

[Anonymous]

Athletic/fit physique. She doesn't have to have a six pack. Some of this is genetic, but most women can look decent.

[Anonymous]

Smile, be happy!