What men want

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Looks matter a lot for dating but for long term partner who’ll parent your children and spend old age with you.

If I'm going to be looking at her for many years to come, looks matter.

People like you suck, though. All people age. We all end up shriveled old people. Looks eventually fade. And I would never be with someone who didn't understand that or who expected me to live up to some unreasonable beauty standard. I'm reasonably attractive etc. in my 50s but nowhere near what I was in my 20s and 30s, having had BC, now menopausal, etc. And it would not be reasonable to expect me to be the same.

[Anonymous]

I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

This cannot be a serious post.

[Anonymous]

Honestly this thread makes me absolutely sad for my DD and the men out there on the dating scene. If this is representative of men as a whole now, it’s beyond scary and sad.

You all have completely unrealistic expectations and seemingly give no thought to a MUTUAL partner.

You all also seem to not be self-aware as to your own flaws. I’m sure a “what women want” thread would be quite illuminating to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

This cannot be a serious post.

Serious as a heart attack. Men are more emotionally consistent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

This cannot be a serious post.

Serious as a heart attack. Men are more emotionally consistent.

Thanks for the laugh. (Np).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

This cannot be a serious post.

Serious as a heart attack. Men are more emotionally consistent.

Thanks for the laugh. (Np).

Um for a week out of the month, male partners can be guaranteed that they need to “tread lightly”. I know it’s not right to say that, but it’s so true. Just rude and scathing behavior has to seemingly be forgiven when women are on their periods. You know that’s a fact. Men are more emotionally consistent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

Your feelings aren’t facts

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

This cannot be a serious post.

Serious as a heart attack. Men are more emotionally consistent.

Thanks for the laugh. (Np).

Um for a week out of the month, male partners can be guaranteed that they need to “tread lightly”. I know it’s not right to say that, but it’s so true. Just rude and scathing behavior has to seemingly be forgiven when women are on their periods. You know that’s a fact. Men are more emotionally consistent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

What are you doing so the women in your life are "harpy" and "continually grouchy and whining about everything"? This is abnormal behavior and is likely a "you" problem. Part of it could be how you express yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are men in general less picky when it comes to their partner, compared to women? I.e., as long as they have regular sex, are attracted to them, can carry a somewhat decent conversation, and that’s it?

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

Oh yes sure, starting bar fights, resorting to domestic violence, murdering people in your own communities and war mongering?

Men are *so* much more emotionally stable than women. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Looks matter a lot for dating but for long term partner who’ll parent your children and spend old age with you.

If I'm going to be looking at her for many years to come, looks matter.

People like you suck, though. All people age. We all end up shriveled old people. Looks eventually fade. And I would never be with someone who didn't understand that or who expected me to live up to some unreasonable beauty standard. I'm reasonably attractive etc. in my 50s but nowhere near what I was in my 20s and 30s, having had BC, now menopausal, etc. And it would not be reasonable to expect me to be the same.

I would want to marry a person who is going to be good to look at for many years. Luckily I chose wisely.

[Anonymous]

I chose my wife in particular because she was strong in areas I was not and knew I would have to really grow as a person in order to make it work, and I think I have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d settle for “can control her temperament the way a man can”.

And ladies y’all know what I mean.

So much of your time is spent complaining or emoting. Men don’t do that as much. We don’t go around in a huff for no reason.

So, yeah, like everyone else said, men want a pretty, agreeable, equal with a good sense of humor.

But overall we don’t want a harpy who is continually grouchy and whining about everything.

Ok? Great.

This cannot be a serious post.

yeah, LOL. Don't say jack and then explode a few times a month. great "temperament"

[Anonymous]

We were great friends for a few years before we got together and we continue to be great friends 32 years later. Very helpful is that she was/is beautiful, super smart, fun, an amazing mother and still great in bed. I do believe that our great friendship early on has been the foundation of our relationship.