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So your point is that once you spend money, you have less of it? Okay then. Please tell me this is satire. |
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To answer the poster who asked what percentage of the 40 percent at Harvard from Private school were actually applicants from working class backgrounds who , yes, applied from Private but we’re actually checking the boxes for said HYP to admit: 1st gen college, URM , single parent or ALL of the above:
Do you actually think that a parent of a bright and talented kid doesn’t start looking for a great education for them LONG before college application season? Say a single parent raising a kid in Ward 1 on less than 100k a year in income notices that her 3 year old has just taught himself to read- do you not comprehend that that parent, if zoned for a failed school, would try to get their kid into Private or move to a better school district Do you honestly think that parents with kids like that just sit on their thumbs, send them to a sh?t school for 14 years and then have them apply to Harvard No, those kids are the ones who’s parents are banging on Private school doors in elementary, middle school or HS - whatever it takes - until someone recognizes their kid’s potential And it’s also what schools like St Albans, Sidwell, Maret and GDS love to invest in- as does Dalton, Trinity, Exeter, Andover - and the teachers at these schools love that kind of merit based student True, the apply to Harvard as a Private school applicant, but really they are a kid who made it from ground up Obama’s story with his GP’s putting him through Private school in Hawaii is perfect example. Did Harvard look at his application as being from “ just another privileged Private school spoiled brat “ or a bright kid, raised without a father, who was doing extremely well academically and social genius |
This post will be completely ignored on this thread because private school parents know for a fact that no one gets below a B at public school. They are experts on the local public schools even if they have never set foot in one. So you must be lying as apparently your child failing a class in public school is practically impossible |
Ok. I will tell my law firm partner husband who made $2M this year that we are UMC. Or would you call us middle class? We don’t own a 20 million dollar yacht so I guess in your mind we are middle class |
| Flip side as someone who graduated from a pressure cooker suburban high school and went to a top ivy. Yes, ivy seemed “Easy” in comparison to high school. That was nice. BUT I was so burnt out from high school that I didn’t challenge myself one bit at college. Got by with god grades, but had an easy major, no minor, didn’t do senior thesis, did minimal extracurriculars etc. do you want that for your kid? |
You are wrong when it comes to both the Big3 schools and Wilson. I have daughters who left DCPS for NCS. The top 15-20 or so girls at NCS (out of 80) will go to the Ivy League each year. It's already happening this year with approx. 15 ED admits. Going to NCS and doing well is what makes them stand out. It is the main point on their "resume". NCS is among the top 5 girls schools in the US. There are 80 girls per class. Do well and you are in a very small pool of top applicants nationally from "top girls schools". You have put yourself in a national pool of 40 such girls. It becomes what distinguishes them in admissions. The girls who succeed at getting Ivy spots not winning the Intel science prize or founding internationally known non-profits. They are simply doing well in school and participating in every-day extracurriculars: member of the math club, writer for the literary journal, etc. Maybe they do one thing city-wide (winning an award or similar). But they are by-in-large not doing remarkable things outside of the classroom. (Some are---this year's Special Olympian and fencer as examples) but many simply are not. They don't have to. The same thing goes for Wilson kids who succeed. They are also in an exceptionally small pool and their school becomes the distinguishing factor on their resume. There is ONE good comprehensive high school in the District of Columbia (Wilson). It may graduate 500 kids per year but a good portion of it's students are not aiming high academically. Let's say in a typical year there are 100 very good students and a pool of 50 that are applying to top schools. The ones succeeding at the Ivys are very good students but again, they are not doing things like winning at Intel or doing internationally known extracurriculars. They are perhaps an editor of the school paper (maybe Chief editor but maybe not--there are many different editors each year). They probably do some volunteer work. They may do debate and succeed at going to nationals (not winning at nationals but going to compete). I know I'm probably going to get crucified for typing this but I have seen it play out time and time again over the past 5 years. I know these kids personally. They are regular kids (i.e. not kids with any particularly unique story) who are succeeding in their small pools but they are both pools that the Ivy league (and similar) very much care about having representation from. I do think it is MUCH harder to achieve an Ivy (or similar) admit from a DMV suburban public. There you are one of 50 (maybe 100? 200? more?) qualified kids in your high school and there are 30 high schools in your district (Fairfax) or 15 (Loudoun) or 31 (Mont. Co). Sure, a school may take more kids total than they do from Wilson or NCS but the competition numbers are far greater. These kids are having to do truly interesting and often spectacular things to set themselves apart. |
OP, the top kids at Wilson are doing truly interesting and often spectacular things. In my experience, much more so than the boring vanilla kids at suburban high schools in Fairfax or Montgomery Counties, or the pampered rich kids at area privates. |
Not in my experience over the past 3 years. My kid was on the debate team with Wilson kids (my kid was at Deal on the same team). The Wilson debate kids went on to Harvard, Barnard, Rice, Georgetown, Occidental etc. The one noteworthy extracurricular each kid had was debate. We knew these kids really, really well. They weren't secretly splitting the atom in their space time and you can't convince me otherwise. The Wilson debate team is very strong and goes to nationals each year but these kids weren't national champs themselves or anything that distinguishing. |
The point isn't that the only way into an Ivy is splitting the atom. Rather, the point is that grade inflation isn't what is getting Wilson kids into the Ivies. The admissions folks at the Ivies see "Wilson debate team" and that tells them what they want to know before they ever look at GPAs and stats. |
At my kid’s MoCo high school, a bunch of kids including my DC got into HYPCS. They all had something extra besides debate team. My kid won a state award and had a rec from a national figure in a particular extra curricular (don’t want to out my kid by saying what)—and was president of a club while working after school. Others were athletes who completed on the national level. One was a first gen immigrant (who took a full scholarship elsewhere). No legacies that I know of. |
How old are you? If you're an adult, perhaps you could have benefited from the emotional intelligence taught in private school |
OMG, right? Look, I know a few folks who are this clueless, so not necessarily surprised. What always gets me is some of the folks who vociferously argue these points attended what some would call "elite" or "prestigious" colleges/universities - how can a school churn out that level of nonsense and still be considered elite? |
Right. well, MontCo theoretically has 31 debate teams at their 31 high schools. DCPS has one debate team at it's ONE good comprehensive high school. (Even Walls does not have it's own debate team--the kids debate for Wilson). So the pool of smart kids who debate from DCPS is super small. As in 2-4 seniors a year, total. Debate is usually enough. It's a numbers game. |
This is BS. I’m sorry. Maybe this narrative makes you feel better or perhaps these kids are not sharing everything with you but no way is just being on the Wilson debate team enough to get you into an Ivy. I know a kid from School without Walls who got into Harvard. He had a top GPA. He also did model UN at school without walls. The team was very good and actually went to an international competition in South Africa where he won the top award. And for all I know, he might have done other stuff as well. Ivies and their equivalents are no fools. They look for something that tells them this kid will do fine at their school and might go on to do some very cool things |
| Why don’t the other DC public high schools like Roosevelt have debate teams? |