Defense contractor??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you people have any idea what is happening in Afghanistan? If this guy does not check in by 9/30, maybe wonder then. Right now anyone who has worked there is trying everything imaginable to get people out. Desperate people are texting from on the ground. Then there is the whole piece of people who are actually doing the logistical work to bring back tens of thousands so far. And there are so many in need. All to say, if you like him give him the space to do the right thing at work and a chance to be a decent date later.

+1 and yes contractors play critical roles throughout government. If that's his job, he's likely working around the clock right now.

[Anonymous]

She needs to let it go, OP.

Is he married??

[Anonymous]

He doesn't like you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend met someone who’s a defense contractor at Bolling. They went out twice. then communication dropped off. Non plans to get together again., His last text was late last week when he said he was really busy with the Afghanistan situation. She told him to let him know when he’s free and she’s not heard anything. I think he ghosted her but she has this hope that he’s just working around the clock. Anyone know anything about this kind of work? I mean, he could still send a hello text... lol

I find it odd that no one has asked, and you may not know, if they had sex, date 1, 2, or both. If they did and he was underwhelmed or he believed he didn't meet her level then he might be gone for that reason.

All dynamics are important, some more than others, but in a couple dates you can get an instinct as to whether you want to continue.

[Anonymous]

He works at Best Buy and learned a long time ago that know one buys "I work for the CIA" but "I'm a defense contractor" works as an easy lay for any non-liberal woman.

[Anonymous]

I met an FBI guy online and then twice in person and he disappeared on me because he had to fly out to work on the George Floyd case last May.
We never slept together but I was still hurt that he just ghosted after we had been talking daily for months.

There are some strange people out there

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I met an FBI guy online and then twice in person and he disappeared on me because he had to fly out to work on the George Floyd case last May.
We never slept together but I was still hurt that he just ghosted after we had been talking daily for months.

There are some strange people out there

Talking for months and that happened? Sucks but at the same time sounds like a blessing to me. Imagine continuing down the road what might have happened after you have invested more into the relationship.

[Anonymous]

My active duty now-DH deployed a few weeks after our first date but still managed to find a way to call and email and we were engaged 4 months after he got home. I say this to say, I would advise her to move on because if he was really into her, he would find a spare minute to at least send a text.

[Anonymous]

No one is “too busy” to send a text here and there if they are interested in someone. Period. And yes, I am a State Department employee and understand exactly what is going on in Afghanistan right now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He probably got what he wanted and now has moved on to his next victim. 🤣

Uh, two dinners he paid for, a hug and a kiss? Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He doesn't like you.

He doesn’t know me. He went out with my friend. 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My friend met someone who’s a defense contractor at Bolling. They went out twice. then communication dropped off. Non plans to get together again., His last text was late last week when he said he was really busy with the Afghanistan situation. She told him to let him know when he’s free and she’s not heard anything. I think he ghosted her but she has this hope that he’s just working around the clock. Anyone know anything about this kind of work? I mean, he could still send a hello text... lol

I find it odd that no one has asked, and you may not know, if they had sex, date 1, 2, or both. If they did and he was underwhelmed or he believed he didn't meet her level then he might be gone for that reason.

All dynamics are important, some more than others, but in a couple dates you can get an instinct as to whether you want to continue.

Didn’t have sex. Hug on date 1, kiss date 2.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one is “too busy” to send a text here and there if they are interested in someone. Period. And yes, I am a State Department employee and understand exactly what is going on in Afghanistan right now.

I am OP and agree.

[Anonymous]

He ghosted. Even if he’s working around the clock, a text takes two seconds to send.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He ghosted. Even if he’s working around the clock, a text takes two seconds to send.

Not if he can’t have his phone with him.