Does your libido decrease when you feel unattractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is basically the largest predictor of my libido. I started strength training regularly and it shot through the roof. I think I’m wearing my DH out LOL.

+1. My wife started lifting and eating better. She looks great - lean, tone and healthy looking. Her libido has gone through the roof. It’s been the most sex we’ve had in our relationship.

[Anonymous]

Do you have an eating disorder, OP?

"Unattractive" isn't a feeling. It also isn't an objective fact. I'm not sure how I feel about "body positivity at any size," but a 20lb weight gain should not throw you for such a loop that it destroys your marriage and your sense of self-worth. That's not normal.