DH’s “friends” suck

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here

make your own friends. nothing says that the two of you have to be joined at the hip at social events. or that you even need to attend the same social events...

DW has friends that I can't stand, and I know for a fact that I have friends that she cant stand. and we have friend that each of us equally like. It works marriage is a bit of give and take.

+1

Totally agree. Not sure why he attracts drama, and I’m the bad guy for pointing it out.

Also, DH seems “jealous” (or something??) about my being close with my friends or family. Ex: DH has no cousins his age and didn’t grow up with any close family or friends - DH is rude to my close family/friends, as a result. It’s sad and well, awful.

DP
Hmm... I am not really a rude person, but can be a bit too logical. If this is OP adding more info, it makes me wonder. Is it possible that your DH's friends suck because your DH sucks in many ways and he matches with his friends?

[Anonymous]

Agree with PP. OP here. It is difficult to feel like a referee sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agree with PP. OP here. It is difficult to feel like a referee sometimes.

OP again - eye opening, thank you. Now what?

In thinking back, his friends are all miserable. Misery loves company - it is true, sadly.