Our situation is similar, but not identical. We both work. SAHM is not viable for us.
We are moving DC from current daycare to a real preschool program in September. At the preschool, DC will at least be exposed to letters, numbers, counting to 10, shapes, phonics, and cultural lessons (halloween, thanksgiving, etc.) while also having lots of play time (inside and outside) and practical lessons (share, wash hands, take your turn). We plan to sign up early for many weeks of daycamps to help cover next summer. Lots of good summer daycamp options exist starting at age 3 or 4. |
OP here. I forgot I posted this! We're still at odds on this decision - glad to read responses and thoughts from you all. My biggest concern, as many of you mentioned, is WFH with him in afternoons/all breaks/summer. It's a distraction that I think is worth the extra $$ (which actually equates to a little less than $4K/year once we accounted for meals and fees at the preschool). Plus, it's better for him to be playing with friends than being stuck in front of a TV while we try to work. DH wouldn't be an a**hole and would help with DS at home as he does now, but I work a very demanding job (not long hours) and I just rather have the peace of mind to finish work before DS comes home. |
If what the dad would do counts as "helping," definitely do the preschool. You need backup! |
1000% daycare |