Relationship Struggling With A Baby

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Missed your initial post but it sounds like you have a DH problem not a breastfeeding or sleep problem. Your DH should not be fighting with you. You have hormones coursing through your body and just pushed an entire person out of your vagina or were sliced open. He should not be engaging with any fighting. His job is to be the ultimate disarmer in chief. E.g. “babe you seem a little cranky can I get you some water or make you some food? How about a shower while I hold the baby.” Mom of three so I know what’s up.

OP here’s my husband is amazing. It’s not him. He is working 12 hours days and Saturdays because he is doing the job of two people. We are both tired. We have been having little arguments about who will get up with the baby at night. I irrationally lost it on him when he suggested I stop breastfeeding and switch to formula. My baby won’t latch and I pump 8 times a day. I have a low supply and we supplement with formula. My baby had weight issues because of low supply and latch issues. He had gained weight since we started supplementing. My husband is involved and does as much a she can.