If you cheated and were caught do you care if your SO cheats too?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Most cheaters care. Which is why they cheat rather than saying "let's open our marriage." They want a monogamous spouse while they get to sleep around.

Men in particular. They love the idea of an open marriage, but once they realize their wife is going to get laid more than he is he throws a fit.

Cake, eating, etc.

I have seen your post this before but I don't think it's true. I have cheated and so have several of my friends. The usual response is that we wouldn't care if she cheated. Most of us are lonely in marriage and the idea of being open about it sounds great.

I suppose if you have a passionate marriage it would be different

This tends to be more of a millennial thing...the open stuff, polyamory.

Most guys in the late 40-range and above (minus the fetish cuqold guys and the gay ones who use wife as a beard) are horrified at the concept of their wives getting D from somebody else. They talk about beating the crap out of a guy that did this with their wives.

Really ? Millennial are all in on open relationships etc ?

The pp makes sense. Tinder is inundated by Millennials in polyamory relationships.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most cheaters care. Which is why they cheat rather than saying "let's open our marriage." They want a monogamous spouse while they get to sleep around.

Men in particular. They love the idea of an open marriage, but once they realize their wife is going to get laid more than he is he throws a fit.

Cake, eating, etc.

I have seen your post this before but I don't think it's true. I have cheated and so have several of my friends. The usual response is that we wouldn't care if she cheated. Most of us are lonely in marriage and the idea of being open about it sounds great.

I suppose if you have a passionate marriage it would be different

This is hypothetical. You all might be surprised to find you feel very differently if your spouse actually did cheat. Also, if someone is so lonely in a marriage, why not divorce?

We all have kids. And stable finances.

Who divorces solely to get laid? Not worth throwing your family out for it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most cheaters care. Which is why they cheat rather than saying "let's open our marriage." They want a monogamous spouse while they get to sleep around.

Men in particular. They love the idea of an open marriage, but once they realize their wife is going to get laid more than he is he throws a fit.

Cake, eating, etc.

I have seen your post this before but I don't think it's true. I have cheated and so have several of my friends. The usual response is that we wouldn't care if she cheated. Most of us are lonely in marriage and the idea of being open about it sounds great.

I suppose if you have a passionate marriage it would be different

This is hypothetical. You all might be surprised to find you feel very differently if your spouse actually did cheat. Also, if someone is so lonely in a marriage, why not divorce?

We all have kids. And stable finances.

Who divorces solely to get laid? Not worth throwing your family out for it

Many, many people (leading cause of divorce) divorce when they found out their wife/husband was getting laid by others. It might not be your intention, but you may find yourself out on your *ss when you get caught.