Have you met a great guy but..

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Maybe she can handle more LOL


LMAO

#WAP
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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, this happened to me. It was kind of awful because this was with a colleague, and we had had a friendship/flirtation for a year prior to sleeping together. We had such a great, trusting, comfortable relationship, and it felt so right to take things to the next level. But he had a micro (surprise!), and I couldn't deal; I'm not even sure what he was capable of doing was actual sex at all. The end of our relationship was terrible.

I understand, OP. I don't think it is shallow, though it is a wretched situation for all concerned.


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Then how did you sleep with him?


I don't understand your question. We slept together and he had difficulty with penetration because he has a micro, so I am not even sure it counts as real sex. I was shocked and unsure what to do so just let him do what he wanted.
you'd think he'd be prepared with a strap on or something?
Anonymous
I have a FWB who’s smaller than I prefer. He does other things and offers to use toys. I also dated someone who was well-endowed but terrible at foreplay. If I could combine them....

I don’t think you should feel bad. Who knows what they’ve worked out...
Anonymous
Women hate well-endowed guys too. Its like guys have to be in a narrow range to be compatible.
Anonymous
I’ve experienced both micro and a horse and I did not enjoy either. My husband is about 5” with nice girth and I’m very happy as it’s a perfect fit.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women hate well-endowed guys too. Its like guys have to be in a narrow range to be compatible.


W-E guy here. Women don’t hate w-e guys - at least that hasn’t been my experience at all. Obviously, all women have different preferences but if you enjoy and are really good at foreplay she’ll usually love what comes after. Make her O first, start slow and make sure the angle works for her (don’t just start jabbing her in the kidneys). The look on her face and her reactions will tell you if you’re headed in the right direction. This morning the DW was mid sentence when I went in and she completely stopped talking and then lost her train of thought. Lol. With that said, I think that any guy who is confident, good at foreplay and creating a hot scenario will be considered good in bed.
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I mean it depends. If it was normal size and that wasn't enough, that's a bit shallow.

But people have different anatomy and what feels good for one person doesn't feel good for someone else. I've had way too many convos about this with girlfriends throughout the years.

You guys weren't compatible. Seems like things worked out well for him
Anonymous
Wait OP how many times has this happened. You said dating wouldn't be hard if it wasn't for this issue which makes it sound like you commonly have an issue with size.
Anonymous
The first time I saw my husband's size I was disappointed because I had been with guys who were larger than that when flaccid. By the time we get to PIV I'm usually well out of breath due to his other skills and I'm happy with anything. He's definitely not micro which I've never experienced.
Anonymous
I've never been with anyone well endowed who was also particularly skilled in bed. Fun for the novelty, but not practical long-term.
Anonymous
OK, Samantha.

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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women hate well-endowed guys too. Its like guys have to be in a narrow range to be compatible.


W-E guy here. Women don’t hate w-e guys - at least that hasn’t been my experience at all. Obviously, all women have different preferences but if you enjoy and are really good at foreplay she’ll usually love what comes after. Make her O first, start slow and make sure the angle works for her (don’t just start jabbing her in the kidneys). The look on her face and her reactions will tell you if you’re headed in the right direction. This morning the DW was mid sentence when I went in and she completely stopped talking and then lost her train of thought. Lol. With that said, I think that any guy who is confident, good at foreplay and creating a hot scenario will be considered good in bed.


Many women do hate well-endowed men. Most women do not want a 8+ inches in them everyday. It's too uncomfortable and painful. I prefer 6-7 inches.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women hate well-endowed guys too. Its like guys have to be in a narrow range to be compatible.


W-E guy here. Women don’t hate w-e guys - at least that hasn’t been my experience at all. Obviously, all women have different preferences but if you enjoy and are really good at foreplay she’ll usually love what comes after. Make her O first, start slow and make sure the angle works for her (don’t just start jabbing her in the kidneys). The look on her face and her reactions will tell you if you’re headed in the right direction. This morning the DW was mid sentence when I went in and she completely stopped talking and then lost her train of thought. Lol. With that said, I think that any guy who is confident, good at foreplay and creating a hot scenario will be considered good in bed.


Many women do hate well-endowed men. Most women do not want a 8+ inches in them everyday. It's too uncomfortable and painful. I prefer 6-7 inches.


They do enjoy it on occasion though!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I've never been with anyone well endowed who was also particularly skilled in bed. Fun for the novelty, but not practical long-term.


I've only been with one very well endowed man and while it was great to look at and play with it was really too much for me physically. I'm sure your body can adjust and adapt to it but my interest in him wasn't enough for me to want to wait around. I'm happy with my perfectly average DH.
Anonymous
This thread is all men talking to each other.
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