Stumbled across my boyfriend’s sister’s lewd Instagram/onlyfans

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Well, she's putting herself through grad school. People have done much, much, more to put themselves through school, if you see what I mean.

I don't think you should say anything.

OP here, I should have said that I personally think “Whatever” pretty much, although I worry that since it was easy to stumble upon it could be found by other people who know her and would use it against her, or that it could hurt her professionally.

If this is truly your concern , which is valid, and if you are close to her, talk to her about it suggest that she might want to make the account totally private and disguise her name so future employers or clients can't find her.. You don't help her by running to her brother and creating drama. If you marry her brother you don't want her as your enemy.

[Anonymous]

"Little sister" is an effing ADULT. What she is doing is legal. She may not actually give a flip about what her brother thinks about her choices. She certainly won't care what you think.

Get a life and find a hobby.

[Anonymous]

Report her to the IRS. There’s no way she’s above board on taxes and you can get a finder’s fee.

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the advice everyone! I’m not going to say anything, and forget I saw anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If shes behaving like this, it would make me curious about the family dynamics in his household growing up, in general.

I can tell you this: even if your boyfriend seems well adjusted, family dysfunction plays out in midlife. Keep your eyes wide open, if you’re considering a figure with him.

You want everyone to be as miserable as you with your situation.

[Anonymous]

I am not big on secrets, so if it was your husband, I would definitely tell.

Boyfriend, less clear.

I would be hesitant to show though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am not big on secrets, so if it was your husband, I would definitely tell.

Boyfriend, less clear.

I would be hesitant to show though.

So like....I don’t get what there is to tell.

If it were just pictures of her and her dog and brunches, would you tell? “Omg, can you believe your sister had a mimosa?!?!” Or would you just move on with your life?

Same thing. Who cares what the pictures are. She’s an adult. It’s not keeping a secret anymore than if you didn’t tell that she was posting dog pictures.

[Anonymous]

Stay out of it

[Anonymous]

Maybe she is just trying to pay for school?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am not big on secrets, so if it was your husband, I would definitely tell.

Boyfriend, less clear.

I would be hesitant to show though.

So like....I don’t get what there is to tell.

If it were just pictures of her and her dog and brunches, would you tell? “Omg, can you believe your sister had a mimosa?!?!” Or would you just move on with your life?

Same thing. Who cares what the pictures are. She’s an adult. It’s not keeping a secret anymore than if you didn’t tell that she was posting dog pictures.

Posting dog and brunch pictures aren't likely to prevent her from getting jobs, that said given that she's an adult OP should keep her mouth closed.

[Anonymous]

Do not say a word!
If you wind up marrying she’s probably the only fun one in the family.

[Anonymous]

She’s not hiding it. She has the link for all the world to see in her public Instagram page.

There’s no need to bring it up. She’s a grown woman, despite being your boyfriend’s little sister, and can make her own choices. I’m sure others in the family have noticed.

You don’t ever need to tell your boyfriend that you knew, if he later sees it. Just stay out of it.

[Anonymous]

If it's easy enough for you to stumble upon it, then people know and it's either a big deal to them or its not.

No need for you to get involved.

[Anonymous]

It's photos. Images, and you don't even know what she is posting. It's not sex work. There is no contact with the lonely, sad men who would part with money for a chance to see a little more of her. Mind your own business.

[Anonymous]

Find it while you are sitting together. Startle and gape at him and show him your phone and let him handle the rest.