Should I Tell My Boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would tell him, because if the other guy is still upset this long after, who knows what he might say about you....

THIS

[Anonymous]

Uh, something happened on that bus or something happened along the way.

There is no way a dude who met you on a bus still cares about you, enough to to be annoyed about it 13 years later. If anything, he would probably be like, whoa, what a small world! This is incredible, what are the chances?!

Dudes don't hold grudges like that. Unless you toyed with him. If the story is as innocent as you say, why wouldn't you just tell your boyfriend?

What aren't you telling us OP?

[Anonymous]

It happened 13 years ago? I wouldn't even be thinking about it, he's a nobody/nothing.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Thanks. I was not proud of how I handled the situation of giving his information to someone else. I felt guilty for doing that. I told my boyfriend last night and he laughed about it. I’m not sure the guy is still hung on it, but he recognized me during tje time we were together. He brought it up and I just said “ oh. Sorry it didn’t work out”. and left it at that. My boyfriend thinks the guy needs to get over it.