Instead he will have a loving mother that can provide him with all the resources he could ever need, which is more than most kids can say. Is BJ Novak the godfather? |
Right, but it also sucks for people who have not one, but two crappy parents. Or have parents who are wonderful but they wonder where their next meal will come from. Or children who lack stability at home. She is a successful, good person (flame me for not knowing her personally, its fine) and has the ability to give her kids a wonderful and stable life -- and frankly -- we don't know diddly about the situation between the children and their father. For all we know, they might have a relationship with the man/ men. She doesn't share much about her personal life. |
| Love her!!! |
And you know this... how? |
| Just because she's not publickly naming the father doesen't mean the kid won't have one. |
| I find it so weird when celebs do this. Nothing against Mindy personally - she seems lovely - but Jessica Biel etc. Like why go to such lengths to hide your pregnancy? It's almost more attention seeking than just letting it be out there. |
We have been locked up for 6 months, not that hard. I kept it under wraps until 32 weeks. |
| Wonder who the father is and if its a sperm donor. |
Doesn’t look to me like she was hiding it. She just wasn’t advertising it. Not lighting up Insta, and other social media with pregnancy pics. Not asking her publicist to get articles and pics out there to the public. Not doing interviews or posting real time feelings of nausea or baby kicks. Clearly there are pap pics, they’re just not as popular and she wasn’t trying to use her pregnancy to keep her name relevant to the public. Very much admire that attitude. |
Agree. Damned if she does, damned if she doesn't. If she posts, she is attention seeking and her kid doesn't deserve privacy. If she doesn't, why are you hiding this. Not sure why we do this to women. |
Well presumably you had one and look how you turned out? |
Oh come on. She obviously tried to hide it, didn't mention the birth until a month later, etc. She's welcome to do what she wants but to pretend she wasn't intentionally hiding it is crazy. She's also never shown her daughter's face. Does she have the right? Of course, but to pretend it's not intentional is nuts. |
From most of the posts here it doesn't seem like most fathers contribute that much. Mindy can do it alone and isn't "stuck" like the women here who hitched their wagon to a jerk just so the kid has a father. |
It only sucks if the kids' father is refusing to be involved with them or who walks out on them, that's what sucks for kids. |
| Do we know for sure that BJ Novak isn’t the dad? |