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One summer during college, I was stranded without a car in the town my parents had moved to earlier that year. One weekend, my parents went out of town, leaving me by myself -- no car, no friends.
My girlfriend showed up unannounced that Saturday morning. She'd driven the 90 miles or so to surprise me. I mean, it did lead to quite a bit of sex. (20 year olds alone in a house for a weekend, duh!) But the showing up unannounced to surprise me was the romantic part! |
The men I know are all more into it than the women I know! |
Not really. Just sex |
Wrong! If my husband wants sex there needs to be some romance first or it isn’t going to happen. I can’t just go from mom mode to sex maniac in a matter of seconds. And that romance doesn’t need to be flowers and champagne and can just be helping me out and being very sweet and loving to me. So my husband does care about romance! However, he doesn’t need romance to get in the mood for sex. All I need to do is take a shower, put on a silk nightgown and stand in his office door and tell him I’m going to bed. That is enough romance for him. |
So you're agreeing that men DON'T need romance. |
Her exclamation says "wrong" but her explanation says "right!" |
| Women feel that men should do all the romancing. If they do they are rewarded with sex....sometimes. |
| Before we got engaged my wife did a bunch of romantic things - non sexual. Since then I can’t really recall one. But we’ve been happily married a long time and we do plenty of sexual romantic things so no complaints from me. |
| My first real love was a HS senior and a year ahead of me but vastly more worldly, sophisticated, and well read — we discussed at length her many favorite writers and the books she thought would most appeal to me; I read them all lovingly with her never far from my mind, even though it took years, and even though she dumped me the summer after graduation. I taught HS English for a few years after college, attributable in no small part to our romance, and to her great taste in books. |
' This is soooo romantic and sweet- love it! |
She was checking who you were flying back with, if anyone at all. This is not a negative, just means she cared about herself-with-you. It's normal, human. Romantic? Not sure. |
I would never have assumed that! Nor would I ever have considered that before picking a BF up at the airport as a surprise. But I suppose if the circumstances were right ~ ! |
| Thank him for mowing the lawn on a hot day, have his preferred beverage ready (cold beer), encourage him to chill and shower, offer a massage and see what happens. |