They are nice if you are nevermo, never-a-mormon If you take the step to become one they are very demanding.. After a certain time of courting you there will be pressure to conform. People that seem nice are not all nice |
| I felt the same way, OP! I started following all these Mormon mommy bloggers. Ultimately I converted to Catholicism, the young practicing Catholics I know are also calm happy people, and I follow a bunch of social media Catholic moms too. But the Mormons really have something special. |
| I like orthodox Jews |
| You know you can be a nice person, eat healthy, be family oriented, and even be a prude without having religious beliefs, right? Just be a better person. |
| I grew up non-Mormon in Utah. It was..rough, though I guess kids will seize on any difference, and that was mine. After I moved, the Mormons I’ve met outside Utah have mostly met your definition. Things in Utah feel way more icky and cultish. |
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Listen to/read the first story (not the prologue) and tell me how wholesome and healthy they Are.
https://www.thisamericanlife.org/661/transcript |
You can drink coke, but not coffee or tea. It's hot drinks that are the problem. |
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I am pretty familiar with mormons considering much of my family is mormon (my own parents do not practice/are lapsed).
There are both big plusses and minuses about the culture. By the way, religions that rely heavily on prosletyzing/converting tend to put forward extremely happy faces. We are all in the business of selling hte religion with our daily lives, actions, etc. |
| Wasn’t their doctrine to overthrow the US government until the 1990s? |
| Black people were second class citizens until the late 70s. |
| I found similar people at one of the larger UU Congregations. |
| Sounds like you just need structure in your life, OP. Like you need a higher power to constraint your wants. But joining a new religion does not automatically make you a nice person who no longer wants to drink alcohol or chocolate. You are still you underneath. |
Every religion is a cult. |
No, every religion is not a cult |
A lot of Mormons drink coffee and soda... |