DW’s old affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The gut always knows.

She might be doing something now.[/quote

Agree. Your anxiety now could have been triggered by micro factors you are picking up on. Been there. Check her phone on the sly.

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I think some behavior on her part is subconsciously making you revisit this. I agree about the phone, BUT that’s so 1990s. Cheaters these days rarely use phone/text communication because they know it will show up on a phone bill. Skype and Google for messaging/calls is the way they do it with ZERO trace. Some also create fake/burner email accounts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The gut always knows.

She might be doing something now.[/quote

Agree. Your anxiety now could have been triggered by micro factors you are picking up on. Been there. Check her phone on the sly.

+1

I think some behavior on her part is subconsciously making you revisit this. I agree about the phone, BUT that’s so 1990s. Cheaters these days rarely use phone/text communication because they know it will show up on a phone bill. Skype and Google for messaging/calls is the way they do it with ZERO trace. Some also create fake/burner email accounts.

Examples that could provoke this include if she’s been a little less open about what’s she’s doing. Maybe a few years ago she would gladly seek your input and comfort on things going on in the office and now she’s less willing to just unload on you. Couples typically open up about things to each other. She might also be faking some reasons to go into the office now with the covid. Saying she has important things to do. Otherwise you wouldn’t question it. Chesters rarely change. She’s doing something he’s picking up on for sure.

[Anonymous]

She may have hoo-ered now and again over the years. A shandy here, a shandy there.

[Anonymous]

Married 14 years and you have these insecurities? Good grief, try to man up and get over it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 14 years and you have these insecurities? Good grief, try to man up and get over it.

Because he is married to a deceitful whore and his radar is going off. Trust your instincts.

[Anonymous]

OP, you will ruin your marriage over nothing -- nothing that's important, one way or another, NOW

[Anonymous]

Just have her followed. Put a voice activated recorder in her car, gps magnet underneath. You can’t trace her Skype communication. It won’t show up on your phone bill.

Pre-Covid I would have said to stop by the house randomly mid-day if she is a SAHM. Now that everyone’s home if she’s created some excuse to get out of the house, follow her from a far. That car might turn into a hotel parking lot. There’s a lot of that going on these days.

[Anonymous]

Gloves don’t fit, must acquit... You might be opening Pandora’s Box. Unless you walked in and the guy was balls deep in your wife, let it go.

[Anonymous]

If you suddenly notice when you’re having sex with DW and DW’s V now feels like throwing a hotdog down a hallway, she’s probably having an affair with a well endowed man.