Am I unreasonable not wanting BIL to spend the night at our house?
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Anonymous
| You're not being unreasonable. A hotel is fine. If BIL can't swing it, offer to pay for it. |
Anonymous
Yeah. Agreed--not happening. Keep moving, BIL. |
Anonymous
| I do not think you are being unreasonable. Offer to pay for a hotel. Your husband can meet him somewhere outdoors. If he insists on picking him up, they both wear masks and keep the windows open if possible. |
Anonymous
| Not unreasonable. And BIL should pay for his own hotel ! |
Anonymous
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OP, you are entitled to a preference. For any reason.
Now, insist It's only you being a push-over that's the issue |
Anonymous
| I would not. I’d rather pay for his hotel room than have him in my home. |
Anonymous
You are an idiot. It is one or the other - once exposed let him in. |
Anonymous
That's not going to help. Bil can take test then be exposed when on train and flying. |
Anonymous
Says a person who is probably having covid parties. |
Anonymous
| Definitely pay for the hotel. Let your BIL take a taxi to the hotel. Ask your husband to choose to meet his brother at an outdoor restaurant. These all seem like reasonable actions to me so hopefully your BIL and husband will comply. |
Anonymous
This. And if they are in the car, be sure it is in fresh air mode, not air recirculation mode. Open the windows, too, if it isn't too ungodly hot. |
Anonymous
| NOPE. See you in 2021/2 BIL. |
Anonymous
| He stays at a hotel at his own expense. |
Anonymous
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No. Circumstances under which I *would* be comfortable -- if he had been conservative in his current location (mask use, very limited social contact, practicing social distancing), and travel in a private car, not a plane or train.
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Anonymous
| No. You have to protect the health of your family. |