What's the deal with evil or mean people?

[Anonymous]

I think more people than not are like that and its just coming out more with COVID and the "Karen" stuff.

[Anonymous]

you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some people are not good. When they show you who they are, believe them. Let her go.

I did this a few years back. Once I knew she was cheating on her husband I started to slowly dump her. She really was horrible the more I found out. Then right after the divorce she got cancer and kept calling. That was a nightmare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

Funny what I was thinking. I'm shocked at the people who admit they lie and cheat and have zero remorse...at least most.

Or the bragging AP's. I'm old enough to have seen some really bad things happen to those people. Bad people invite all kinds of drama into their lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

Funny what I was thinking. I'm shocked at the people who admit they lie and cheat and have zero remorse...at least most.

Or the bragging AP's. I'm old enough to have seen some really bad things happen to those people. Bad people invite all kinds of drama into their lives.

not just limited to the issue of cheating but there are some prolific posters who just tear into people for no reason other than they themselves are just sad, depressed, angry human beings

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some people are not good. When they show you who they are, believe them. Let her go.

I did this a few years back. Once I knew she was cheating on her husband I started to slowly dump her. She really was horrible the more I found out. Then right after the divorce she got cancer and kept calling. That was a nightmare.

They get what they deserve. POSs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

Funny what I was thinking. I'm shocked at the people who admit they lie and cheat and have zero remorse...at least most.

Or the bragging AP's. I'm old enough to have seen some really bad things happen to those people. Bad people invite all kinds of drama into their lives.

I’m anxiously awaiting to see that Karma take a lying/cheating evil b@tch down!!

I agree. At 50, I’ve seen many a-holes pay their due in some fairly spectacular ways!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

Funny what I was thinking. I'm shocked at the people who admit they lie and cheat and have zero remorse...at least most.

Or the bragging AP's. I'm old enough to have seen some really bad things happen to those people. Bad people invite all kinds of drama into their lives.

I’m anxiously awaiting to see that Karma take a lying/cheating evil b@tch down!!

I agree. At 50, I’ve seen many a-holes pay their due in some fairly spectacular ways!

Karma doesn't always deliver a gut punch though. I've got an unhappy neighbor who takes it out on others in the neighborhood and while the Karma bus hasn't come it appears that a slow, miserable Karma burn is taking over this person's entire mental state. Pinched face, angry grimace and aging quickly. Wow, all of that negativity is eating them up inside.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

Funny what I was thinking. I'm shocked at the people who admit they lie and cheat and have zero remorse...at least most.

Or the bragging AP's. I'm old enough to have seen some really bad things happen to those people. Bad people invite all kinds of drama into their lives.

not just limited to the issue of cheating but there are some prolific posters who just tear into people for no reason other than they themselves are just sad, depressed, angry human beings

Yep. There is always a bitter angry woman tearing into the op or going off with f this or that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

Funny what I was thinking. I'm shocked at the people who admit they lie and cheat and have zero remorse...at least most.

Or the bragging AP's. I'm old enough to have seen some really bad things happen to those people. Bad people invite all kinds of drama into their lives.

not just limited to the issue of cheating but there are some prolific posters who just tear into people for no reason other than they themselves are just sad, depressed, angry human beings

x1000000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you described quite a number of folks who frequent DCUM

Funny what I was thinking. I'm shocked at the people who admit they lie and cheat and have zero remorse...at least most.

Or the bragging AP's. I'm old enough to have seen some really bad things happen to those people. Bad people invite all kinds of drama into their lives.

I’m anxiously awaiting to see that Karma take a lying/cheating evil b@tch down!!

I agree. At 50, I’ve seen many a-holes pay their due in some fairly spectacular ways!

Karma doesn't always deliver a gut punch though. I've got an unhappy neighbor who takes it out on others in the neighborhood and while the Karma bus hasn't come it appears that a slow, miserable Karma burn is taking over this person's entire mental state. Pinched face, angry grimace and aging quickly. Wow, all of that negativity is eating them up inside.

+1

It does! Totally eats people like this from the inside out, and they hate nothing more than seeing someone else happy, or seeing someone with something they want. It KILLS them.

OP, people like this can't figure out how to be happy, because they get in their own way. They don't know any better. NOT your problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is rare you come across someone who just seems like a bad person, but I have realized someone in my life is and have created boundaries and distance. She was boasting about getting a pregnant friend drunk and saying another friend deserved to have a disabled child because she had a baby as an older mom (36, so nothing crazy). She also finds any opportunity she can to put someone down. What causes someone to be like this? She seems to have a normal upbringing and otherwise sort of blends in with the crowd. She doesn't have many friends which I guess isn't a surprise. Are some people just inherently kind of evil or do you think it could be a personality disorder?

Sounds mental

[Anonymous]

Hurt people hurt people

[Anonymous]

I think it's selfishness, manifesting as harming others to improve your own situation in some way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Could be a lot of things, but aggressive/nasty people just remind me of aggressive/nasty dogs. There isn't something wrong with them, but people always hurt them (or have hurt them) so they have a "fight face" on and have to lash out first. They have the attitude of dogs who were forced to fight.

Cut them off, and find people who have the attitude of a golden retriever loafing around in a pile of leaves.

You're insulting dogs.