Separate household safety practices during covid

[Anonymous]

You are SOOL. I mean, you can ask nicely for changes but that is about it.

I share 50-50 custody with my ex. My elderly parents live in a basement apartment attached to my house, so we've been very careful about social distancing. My ex is pretty good at his house, but he allows his girlfriend's (affair partner during our marriage) 3 kids my kids regularly, and I have no idea how careful she is with her kids or how careful her ex is with them on his time. I also saw her the other day canoodling in the park with a man who was most certainly not my ex husband, so goodness only knows what my kids are exposed to via her.

But.... not much I can do about it except control our environment here and teach my kids good hygiene habits.

[Anonymous]

OP:

Sorry to say, you're out of luck. The ONLY options you have (if you want to stay as safe as possible):

1) extend the stays at each house (maybe a month at a time or 2-3 weeks at a time)

2) Grant your ex temporary primary physical custody

3) Take temporary primary physical custody

The last 2 I would not recommend because it can be a slippery slope

[Anonymous]

OP, best thing you can do is to keep your home safe.
Maybe when news continues to get worse, your ex will
See the light and will align a bit more with you.