| So you just give up and stay? I think most men are all talk. They might “say” they want 50% custody, but when that reality becomes real, they will have a million excuses. |
Many aspies say and do anything to protect their ego and image, at all costs to their marriage or relationship. |
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Yeah my DH too. There are probably a lot of us.
Don’t want to deal with the financial implications of divorce, or him having the kids 50% so I deal. Divorce would royally eff up our kids. Basically men (not all but most) are gigantic babies with poor emotional skills. With occasional bright spots/moments. Unfortunately. |
+1 especially the last paragraph. There’s a lot of ego protection as well which leads to them acting this way. |
Advice for you: Do not have kids |