Am I wrong to ask DH to accompany me on walks?

[Anonymous]

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Oh look, two ugly people here replying to each other.

[Anonymous]

I posted on the introvert/extrovert thread in this forum. This would also bother me. I usually plan my day when I wake up in the morning. I am not completely inflexible, but I don't like to add things in that take an hour or more just because. It might seem to you like he is just fiddling around all day, but it sounds like he has kind of a rigid routine. He wakes up at 2pm, drinks coffee and works, has a cocktail at 8pm or whatever, then engages in hobbies and probably works some more until bedtime. If he is a gamer, he may have specific times he is supposed to meet up with people online to play.
What works for my husband and I is for him to tell me the day before that he wants to do something. That way, I can put it in my plan for the day. The other thing that works is for me to share the plan with him. That way, he can see where there are gaps or where we might be able to move something.

I know that it's annoying, but it keeps me on track.

[Anonymous]

OP also posted similar threads about her DH how he wakes up at 2pm every day, plays video games at night, etc. OP is married to a man child.

[Anonymous]

OP's husband sounds like a real hump, but one solution for this specific issue would be instead of asking to go for a walk right now, ask in the afternoon about going for a walk after dinner or in the evening about doing it the next day.

I have no solution for the sleeping all day or videogames. Last time I did either I was a child.

(Shift workers and other non-traditional hour people excluded from needing to come back regarding the sleeping all day portion. This guy is clearly not getting home from an overnight shift at the Jerk Store).

[Anonymous]

I think we're all getting more time with our spouses than we ever hoped for.