Friend’s Husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm so bothered by the fact that none of you are social distancing that I can't even get to the subject of your post. It sounds like this whole group sucks, given the disregard you all have for social distancing and stay at home orders.

+1 all I can do is wonder if OP is writing from a parallel universe where there is no pandemic

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Yes! And the woman whose husband is annoying her when they are with other people. This isn't much of a problem these days, is it? No parties, no work, no community activities ...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would a woman be walking someone home, then walking back by herself? And why are these people still partying together?

The party thing I can't answer to, but as a woman I have walked other women home and then walked myself home because they felt better with an escort, and I didn't care.

[Anonymous]

Cool story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so bothered by the fact that none of you are social distancing that I can't even get to the subject of your post. It sounds like this whole group sucks, given the disregard you all have for social distancing and stay at home orders.

This you all are a bunch of morons. Don’t tell the wife because she won’t believe you anyway.

[Anonymous]

Sleep with the wife.

[Anonymous]

I would not be alone with either of them ever again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh man, that’s hard. I don’t think I would tell - I’d pretend it never happened. I wouldn’t want to be in the middle of their relationship drama - I’d exit stage left. I’d be cordial in public but make sure I’m never alone with him again.

This. I wouldn't say anything b/c nothing happened.

And rest assured, if you do *try* to tell her, he will weasel out of it like "what?...omg no! Honey, I don't know what she *thinks* I was doing but she was all weepy about the breakup and I felt bad for her listened to her go on and on about it and then I tried to give her a hug and she freaked out! I'm actually embarrassed for her that she thinks I was coming onto her."

And then the wife will be awkward around you and you will be known in their circle as the girl who spreads rumors about her husband for "no reason."

+100

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm so bothered by the fact that none of you are social distancing that I can't even get to the subject of your post. It sounds like this whole group sucks, given the disregard you all have for social distancing and stay at home orders.

This you all are a bunch of morons. Don’t tell the wife because she won’t believe you anyway.

And you don’t have to feel guilt about not telling because nothing happened, it was an awkward drunken moment.
If she ever mentions concern about her husband in the future, you can bring it up and say at the time you didn’t think much of it and that maybe you read it wrong.

[Anonymous]

Married creeps quickly come out of the woodwork when you’re either recently divorced or post a break up. After my divorce I was hit on by a couple of married friends which really surprised me given I thought they were in good marriages. Did they really think I was so desperate for sex that I would sleep with them? I just let the friendships slip away and went on with my life. After a divorce it may be best to make new friends and move on.

[Anonymous]

what kind of trashy neighborhood is this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your friendship is over no matter what you decide to do.

This is correct. It's unfair and it sucks but it's true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your friendship is over no matter what you decide to do.

This is correct. It's unfair and it sucks but it's true.

+1 these friendships are built on convenience and few last long term anyhow. Find new friends.

[Anonymous]

The worse part is the lack of social distancing. My family is fairly close to four other families within one block. We still practice distancing. The closest we have gotten to "getting together" was a four people around a bonfire at the base of a driveway...and we were seated 5-8 feet apart chatting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your friendship is over no matter what you decide to do.

This is correct. It's unfair and it sucks but it's true.

+1 these friendships are built on convenience and few last long term anyhow. Find new friends.

Yep. And be prepared for the guy to try again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your friendship is over no matter what you decide to do.

This is correct. It's unfair and it sucks but it's true.

+1 these friendships are built on convenience and few last long term anyhow. Find new friends.

That women is married to a cheater. Not his first time.
I would tell her.

Don't make friends with your neighbors, that seldom ends well.