Neighbor acting like my cat is hers

[Anonymous]

Yeah, we had an indoor/outdoor cat with a side chick. We decided to keep him indoors after the crazy woman took him to the vet because she thought he was sick. He was not and she wanted us to reimburse her. We made sure she never saw him again.

[Anonymous]

Much, much worse happens to outdoor cats. Be grateful.

[Anonymous]

Keep cat in the house OP.

My neighbors cat would come over to get pets from me because they let her out and ignored her. Better than getting run over or attacked by a dog or fox.

[Anonymous]

Your cats just not that into you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Keep your D cat in your house.

+1 your cat should not be roaming outside

Yep this. The safest place for cats is indoors. You are stupid to let your cat roam. It's also cheaper to have a non-roaming cat as there are fewer shots needed nor any flea preventative. It's also better for birds. I acquired one of my cats when its stupid former owner let a 20 year old deaf cat roam! It looked terrible due to age and I assumed it was homeless. This was in an area of other community cats. You don't let a three year old out roaming because it's more interesting outside do you? Ugh. I hate people like you. AN otherwise educated person on my neighborhood listserv recently gave away a fancy automatic litter box because she said her cat had decided to become an outdoor cat. No her cat did not decide that. She did.

[Anonymous]

If your cat goes outside, what do you want.

[Anonymous]

She shouldn't be feeding the cat. Next time you see her tell her that the vet said your cat is overweight, and "I don't know if you give her treats or food or anything, but if you did in the past could you please not from now on? I'm supposed to monitor her diet carefully so she can be healthy and live long."

Are you super attached to this cat? If not, would you consider formally giving the cat to your neighbor? If you are, there's not much you can do to keep the cat from spending time with her!

[Anonymous]

You can't suddenly turn a happy outdoor cat into an indoor pet just because of the neighbor.

That's not fair to the cat. He's not going to understand why you aren't letting him outside.

Just tell her he's gained weight, you're concerned about it, and ask her to stop feeding him.

Be happy for her and your cat that he brings a sad person some happiness. You're doing a good thing in the world.

[Anonymous]

I don?t know why you?re complaining. Someone cares about your cat and texts you if she doesn?t see him as usual or feels he may vet care. Keep the cat at home if you don?t like it. Since it sounds like she cares about his health, explain that the vet wants the cat to lose weight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can't suddenly turn a happy outdoor cat into an indoor pet just because of the neighbor.

That's not fair to the cat. He's not going to understand why you aren't letting him outside.

Just tell her he's gained weight, you're concerned about it, and ask her to stop feeding him.

Be happy for her and your cat that he brings a sad person some happiness. You're doing a good thing in the world.

+1

[Anonymous]

This is why our cats stay indoors or on a screened porch.

[Anonymous]

I would keep the cat inside. As a kid, one of my cats was killed by a stray dog. It was horrible.

I now own a dog (with a strong prey drive), and often see people letting their cats out on their porch in my neighborhood. I just don't get it, since dogs getting loose in our neighborhood is not unheard of.

[Anonymous]

OMG is her Mom the poster of the other thread?! The one where her adult daughter with UC was living at home and not working enough!

[Anonymous]

If your cat roams, that's the risk you take.

[Anonymous]

I had a cat that was given to me when the cat was an adult. He was neutered (I think when he was already a couple of years old) but would spray the entry if he wasn't let out. He liked sleeping on the neighbor's porch and the neighbor eventually kept him.