I hate my husband

[Anonymous]

Don't dwell on the hate. Rather be pro-active and start looking for a job.

Be busy enough so your interactions with him are limited.

[Anonymous]

Have you granted him an official hall pass or are you pretending he remains celibate? Make it easy on both of you so he can date freely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Theres no way around it. I legit have zero feelings of love twds my husband. I am with him still for one reason only- im currently a SAHM, so I cant divorce him until I have a job again. I became a SAHM because during the time that we were having children I moved from place to place with him for his job (and for his undiagnosed ADHD, which probably fueled his inability to stay in one place). I just cant believe that this is how it would all turn out.

OP how is it going? Any change here?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you granted him an official hall pass or are you pretending he remains celibate? Make it easy on both of you so he can date freely.

Go away with your BS.

[Anonymous]

So, OP is a troll, right?
Why do people post things on here like this BS and then never come back?

[Anonymous]

Not OP. Because like me, they just need to scream it out.

[Anonymous]

I feel this so hard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not OP. Because like me, they just need to scream it out.

How much do you want to bet that 4 years later, OP is still married?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex-wife hated me. She just couldn't stand that I was better than her--a better parent, a better housekeeper, a better cook, and a better income-earner. People usually like me, and dislike her.

Welcome to the reality distortion field.

[Anonymous]

I hate you as well

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Theres no way around it. I legit have zero feelings of love twds my husband. I am with him still for one reason only- im currently a SAHM, so I cant divorce him until I have a job again. I became a SAHM because during the time that we were having children I moved from place to place with him for his job (and for his undiagnosed ADHD, which probably fueled his inability to stay in one place). I just cant believe that this is how it would all turn out.

You can indeed divorce him right now and get child support and alimony. They’ll prob tell you to get a job in 2-4 years depending how long you’ve been sacrificing for him.

Tho your post smells like the dcum Troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you granted him an official hall pass or are you pretending he remains celibate? Make it easy on both of you so he can date freely.

UGH. This is my friend's situation. Her DH pretends not to care how miserable he is making everyone. I would not be surprised if she is stashing money away to leave. At least I would be, if I were her. I know he will make things miserable for her, if she stays or goes, so why not go. Gosh, she could just be free, instead of listening to that a-hole all the time. To my friend I say: you are still young, be free!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

So, OP is a troll, right?
Why do people post things on here like this BS and then never come back?

DCUM Troll just lifts common themes and smashes them about in one post, multiple times a day. They usually fail to make sense and then the sock puppeting and ridiculous responses really give it away.

[Anonymous]

Let me guess...he's just not exciting or he's a narcissist? I bet the problem is you.

[Anonymous]

OP go get a job. You can’t be a SAHM and keep depending on someone you hate. Sh*t or get off the pot.