When do sons develop any modesty around mom?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My 6ty grader still couldn’t care less! No puberty yet...


Same here but he's 1/2 European.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My son recently has started to show some modesty at age 5. He'll still change in front of me most of the time, but sometimes covers his penis so I can't see it.


One of my sons did this at 5, and another one still asks me to put desitin on his rashes at 9.


Your child has diaper rash at age 9? Seriously review the diet and hygiene practices, if so.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My boys have no problem stripping naked in front of me to take a shower. Just curious about when that might change?


That is not normal. How old are they?

Are you sure? Did you read the other responses?
Anonymous
My 6 year old couldn't care less - still takes baths with his little sisters.
Anonymous
My oldest is in college and still strips in front of me but he is a college athlete and I just think being naked is something he has to do every day.

My youngest 6 th grade.
Anonymous
I have three boys. They each developed modesty right before puberty started. One day they were running around the house naked without a care and almost overnight they were covering up. It was shortly after the covering up started that puberty began. I knew puberty started because the pediatrician told me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My boys have no problem stripping naked in front of me to take a shower. Just curious about when that might change?


That is not normal. How old are they? [/quoted his I sent totally normal unless they are 13
Anonymous
About age 5 for my son. He is very modest— not sure where it comes from. He has never gone bare chested at the pool— insists on wearing a swim shirt.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It really depends on the kid.



This. My sons' modesty kicked in at 4/5 years old.
Anonymous
By 5. It was one of those things where I wanted them dressing, going potty by themselves (not needing help with wiping) and also bathing by themselves by the time they entered full day K.Probably around late 3 I shooed them back in their rooms if they were running around naked after their baths. It was just a natural, gradual thing. No embarrassment, no shame involved at all. I think better err on the side of a little early than on the side of a little late with this sort of thing. But that's just me.

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