DH grieving over cat is starting to be too much for me to deal with

[Anonymous]

If you were my wife I’d probably drink that much too.

[Anonymous]

He’s a pussy. Pun intended.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s a pussy. Pun intended.

No he needs some pussy. No pun intended.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The cat was my favorite, and I was his. I know everyone deals with loss differently, but DH has been crying over the loss of our cat every night for the past week. It did happen suddenly, and he was too young, but I wish DH would man up.

Hey dum-dum, you think it's about more than a cat?

+1

[Anonymous]

It is not a competition, for crying out loud! Bcs cat loved you more, he is not allowed to mourn? Can't imagine you supportive you will be when your DH loses a parent!

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you think less of your husband because he cries. That's pretty messed up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you think less of your husband because he cries. That's pretty messed up.

Yeah, the drinking and then sobbing. Not attractive.

[Anonymous]

Go to pound and get him a new cat. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

That's what you get for marrying a man that tolerates cats.

Dogs rule.
Cats drool.

[Anonymous]

You should have led with that.

[Anonymous]

You sound mean.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would it change your opinion if I told you he’s drinking 5+ drinks every night?

Is the drinking new behavior? Since losing the cat?

Any prior losses he hasn’t dealt with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you think less of your husband because he cries. That's pretty messed up.

Yeah, the drinking and then sobbing. Not attractive.

And women wonder why men aren't willing to share their feelings?

[Anonymous]

Wait, he's drunk-crying every night and your post is about cat bereavement?

Maybe the idea is you're fine with him drunk in a corner as long as he only bothers himself but because he brings up the cat (was what your "favorite") it upsets you because your REAL partner died and he's trying to horn in on your loss. Is that what's going on here?

[Anonymous]

correction "was what" should be "which was". Or something