How would you approach this?

[Anonymous]

I would approach this by asking him - Hey, I notice you don't say hi to me if I come by the gym. What's up with that?

[Anonymous]

How does he react when you say hi? Does he just ignore you?

[Anonymous]

When he's talking to someone and not saying hi, is he with a gym client?

[Anonymous]

He’s working and you are needy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s working and you are needy.

This. He's busy with another customer.

Does he seek you out to say hi once he's done with other customers? He may not even notice you when he's helping with and paying attention to another guest. If he's helping them with form and safety, he absolutely should not be distracted by anyone else as this could result in injury (and he would likely lose his job).

It's not about you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He’s working and you are needy.

This. He's busy with another customer.

Does he seek you out to say hi once he's done with other customers? He may not even notice you when he's helping with and paying attention to another guest. If he's helping them with form and safety, he absolutely should not be distracted by anyone else as this could result in injury (and he would likely lose his job).

It's not about you.

+1. For real, he's at work. If I were a paying customer I would want the focus to be on me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He’s working and you are needy.

This. He's busy with another customer.

Does he seek you out to say hi once he's done with other customers? He may not even notice you when he's helping with and paying attention to another guest. If he's helping them with form and safety, he absolutely should not be distracted by anyone else as this could result in injury (and he would likely lose his job).

It's not about you.

Jesus Christ this all over again. HE'S WORKING!!!!!

[Anonymous]

I guess from my perspective if I were the woman being hit on, and the guy waved to another woman at his place of work I would think nothing of it.

No you'd be in here stamping your foot, tossing your hair, and complaining that he rudely flirts with other women when he's hitting on you. Than you'd probably Ask To Speak To A Manager.

[Anonymous]

If you want more, ask. If not, deal with it or move on.

Put yourself in the other person's shoes...this is an employee and you the customer are engaged with him in a conversation. Mid sentence, he waves and says hi to some other customer. How would that make you feel? Like you were boring him maybe? Certainly like you didn't have his full attention. This is your workout place but it's his place of work. He can't look at it the same way you do.

[Anonymous]

put out

[Anonymous]

He may not be allowed to date women from work, and he's maybe trying not to get caught by a coworker?

That said, I think he could at least say hi. It's rude not to at least say hi. I'm not dating anyone from my gym, but even the regulars I've run into outside of it will say hi.

[Anonymous]

Shop close to him and pick something up on high shelf you want and can't reach. Ask him if he would mind getting it for you. Say thank you and give him a small compliment

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Shop close to him and pick something up on high shelf you want and can't reach. Ask him if he would mind getting it for you. Say thank you and give him a small compliment

Wrong thread! Sorry this was for the "meeting people in public places one"