RSVP response when your child is not around
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Anonymous
| OP I think you’re making a mistake in saying no without actually consulting him. As this is a demarcation of ‘adulthood’ that you’re deciding for him-not knowing his connection is pretty presumptuous. And at this age-not attending may actually be seen as his decision and not one he’d make. |