Did I cheat?

[Anonymous]

Were you enjoying it and let it go on or we’re you shocked and confused? One is cheating the other is assault.

[Anonymous]

If it is clear this will not happen again, I’d just brush it under the rug.

[Anonymous]

If OP's husband kissed a dude in a bathroom and that dude (or even a woman for that matter) massaged his dick, would that be cheating? Yes. We don't have different standards for women and men nor for sexual orientation. If you are doing this at 10 months, it doesn't bode well for your marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Were you enjoying it and let it go on or we’re you shocked and confused? One is cheating the other is assault.

+1 Drop this friend from your life. She’s toxic. And don’t blame your DH’s lack of affection for what happened, that’s not fair.

I agree that it’s cheating, but if you were passive snd shocked then you were assaulted.

[Anonymous]

No assault. You people are crazy. OP liked it and wants her friend to do it again. How is that an assault?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like assault to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a straight woman, just married (10 mos) to a super awesome guy that I love and he loves me and my four year old daughter. He’s been more her daddy than her real dad. I love him. He’s not a bad guy in any way— the only minor drawback is he isn’t very affectionate—like he doesn’t hold hands or out his arm around me or anything. The sex though, is very good!

But I was out with my friends a couple weekends ago as a whole group and one of my friends is bi. Anyway my friend (known her for a year or so) and I end up the only two of us in the bathroom and she kissed me. She also touched and massaged my chest under my shirt and that sounds weird but I can’t think of any other way to say it.. she squeezed my boobs? ? at first I was so surprised but now I’m confused as heck because I kinda liked it and wouldn’t mind letting her do it again. Was this cheating because I liked it even though I didn’t ask her to? I won’t let her do it again but I did like it which I feel really guilty,

why are you so dumb lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No assault. You people are crazy. OP liked it and wants her friend to do it again. How is that an assault?

This.

[Anonymous]

OP's boobs were squeezed by another woman more than three years ago and she's never come back since asking DCUM's advice. I'd say we can let this one go.