How to decrease my libido?

[Anonymous]

Most people do not understand that having a high libido is really hard to manage unless you have a similarly matched partner.

It's especially difficult as a single woman wanting a relationship in a culture when men perceive you as loose for enjoying something that they are so desperate to want and cannot get.

[Anonymous]

Colon cancer has reduced things for my DH. I don’t recommended it.

[Anonymous]

Castration.

[Anonymous]

Out of curiosity, what problems is your high libido causing? Is it a partner conflict re low drive vs high drive, or is it something more serious?

As a mental health professional, e.g., client complains about super high drive usually = signal for manic episode.

[Anonymous]

Get her a minivan.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most people do not understand that having a high libido is really hard to manage unless you have a similarly matched partner.

It's especially difficult as a single woman wanting a relationship in a culture when men perceive you as loose for enjoying something that they are so desperate to want and cannot get.

Huh?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Out of curiosity, what problems is your high libido causing? Is it a partner conflict re low drive vs high drive, or is it something more serious?

As a mental health professional, e.g., client complains about super high drive usually = signal for manic episode.

This is OP:
Because it changed from same sexual drive before marriage to not same drive after 15 years of marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Out of curiosity, what problems is your high libido causing? Is it a partner conflict re low drive vs high drive, or is it something more serious?

As a mental health professional, e.g., client complains about super high drive usually = signal for manic episode.

Is it a mental health issues for low drive too?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Out of curiosity, what problems is your high libido causing? Is it a partner conflict re low drive vs high drive, or is it something more serious?

As a mental health professional, e.g., client complains about super high drive usually = signal for manic episode.

This is OP:
Because it changed from same sexual drive before marriage to not same drive after 15 years of marriage.

Her drive might have been lessened for many reasons, one being that that the sex became boring and predictable. Don’t reduce your libido, increase hers by increasing her level of pleasure. Focus more of your effort on her experience and pleasure and less on yours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Out of curiosity, what problems is your high libido causing? Is it a partner conflict re low drive vs high drive, or is it something more serious?

As a mental health professional, e.g., client complains about super high drive usually = signal for manic episode.

This is OP:
Because it changed from same sexual drive before marriage to not same drive after 15 years of marriage.

Her drive might have been lessened for many reasons, one being that that the sex became boring and predictable. Don’t reduce your libido, increase hers by increasing her level of pleasure. Focus more of your effort on her experience and pleasure and less on yours.

This has worked with me ever since my husband began to ask me what do I like and what would feel good. On different nights it’s different things and initially I was hesitant about saying exactly what I wanted (prudish?) but I got over that. Now I often ask him and when we both experience what we want the experience is really something. We’ve been married a long time and it’s fun that our libidos are still very active.

[Anonymous]

Why would anyone want to suppress libido?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most people do not understand that having a high libido is really hard to manage unless you have a similarly matched partner.

It's especially difficult as a single woman wanting a relationship in a culture when men perceive you as loose for enjoying something that they are so desperate to want and cannot get.

I found this difficult as a single woman too. For whatever reason, women are not supposed to like sex.

Fortunately, I found and married a man with a similar sexual drive. I hope the same happens for you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most people do not understand that having a high libido is really hard to manage unless you have a similarly matched partner.

It's especially difficult as a single woman wanting a relationship in a culture when men perceive you as loose for enjoying something that they are so desperate to want and cannot get.

I found this difficult as a single woman too. For whatever reason, women are not supposed to like sex.

Fortunately, I found and married a man with a similar sexual drive. I hope the same happens for you!

Thank you. I can't wait to unleash all of my pent up energy on him .

[Anonymous]

Marriage

[Anonymous]

Get a more stressful, time-consuming job.