I agree. Why you should always "spot" check your spouse from time to time. Same way you would check up on your accountant, contractor, realtor etc. Nothing worse than staying with a rotten person only to discover many years later you've been in a fake marriage. |
I like when my husband checks up on me as then I don't have to text/call to let him know what's going on. Or, each time my car breaks down, he can clearly see where I am to come get us. |
Whatever.
If you don't trust me and you feel it necessary to "spot" check me I will be wishing you and your insecurities a very happy life together - without me. |
It wouldn't bother me, I have nothing to hide. If someone has a problem with it, or is very secretive those are tell tale signs. |
| I would be so hurt if my DH asked me to use a tracker! |
I wouldn't be with someone that isn't open. Secondly, you would never know they are checking up on you...so much for that, lol. |
Don't worry we're talking about checking up in stealth mode. He wouldn't ask you. |
And they best keep it an unknown too - how bout that? |
Yep that's the whole idea! |
Yeah okay. Well they better be careful how they approach me asking why my location sharing was off because that "spot" checking can go both ways. |
Why should they ask you that? No need to mess with your phone. Either a gps, or best spot check with a friend in their car, or a p.i. No need to bother you about anything.... https://www.landairsea.com/products/ |
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Who the hell wants to live like that? If I were living in such a state of insecurity in my relationship, then I would be better off on my own or with someone I didn’t wonder about.
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Exactly. |
It's not insecurity to be realistic. Are you insecure because you check up on your kids? It's the same thing, most people that have been cheated on wish they would have done it much sooner. |
| If someone is going to cheat they’d better be smart enough to turn off the app. We have it on our phones and it’s a nice convenience so I don’t have to call DH to see if he’s on his way home. He won’t use his cell phone while driving for safety reasons. |