Gay and Religious...how does this work?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I'm atheist and gay, I just never got how you could be a homosexual and show love for a religion that deems you as a walking sin factory.


As a Christian I believe we are all walking sin factories
Anonymous
Many religious movements aren't bigoted and realize that it shouldn't require a second thought. Are you kind to others? Do you help make the world a better place? Find a place to pray and build community that is good enough to deserve you if so.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I'm atheist and gay, I just never got how you could be a homosexual and show love for a religion that deems you as a walking sin factory.


As a Christian I believe we are all walking sin factories

+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How can one be LGBT and religious when the teachings of the church pretty much condemn your existence from the get go?
Which religion?


Exactly. Not all religions condemn your existence, OP.


Exactly. The people I know attend a church that accepts them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Because most churches (and also the Jewish religion) have evolved from some sort of do-or-die interpretation of Leviticus. Or do you know of a Church other than Fundies than strictly interprets scripture?


the arguments in Conservative (not to be confused with Orthodox) Judaism over the meaning of Leviticus are fascinating. But since OP thinks "religious" means Christian, I doubt he is interested.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How can one be LGBT and religious when the teachings of the church pretty much condemn your existence from the get go?


You can’t. The church doesn’t condemn your existence but it condemns sin.

The Bible is clear on homosexuality (Romans 1:26-28).

It’s be like trying to claim that murder is okay and claiming to be a Christian at the same time. It doesn’t work
Anonymous
The Episcopal church we attend has a long history of accepting LBGTQ people. We have a gay associate rector. Same-sex couples are active members, and part of the church leadership. I assume that people who are openly gay and remain religious find a church that fully accepts them and doesn't think that their sexual orientation is inherently sinful or disordered.

Other people who are gay and religious, but belong to a church that does not accept them, presumably struggle to reconcile those things. Although I think that few people can stand to live with that tension and internal conflict for very long. They either begin to hate themselves, or repress parts of themselves, or they reject their faith.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I'm atheist and gay, I just never got how you could be a homosexual and show love for a religion that deems you as a walking sin factory.


The same way that people who have divorced, cut off their father/mother, cheated, abused children and many other sins have shown love for religions that would deem them a walking sin factory.

All humans sin. The nature of Christianity is that the church can forgive and absolve and still include the sinner.
Anonymous
Among Christian denominations, the Episcopal Church, the UCC (United Church of Christ) and the Disciples of Christ are the most progressive and the welcoming and affirming to the LGBTQ community. The UCC church I attend does a really good job with inclusive language (God is not gendered, for instance) and with message that we are all created to be just who we are, just as we are.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I'm atheist and gay, I just never got how you could be a homosexual and show love for a religion that deems you as a walking sin factory.


The same way that people who have divorced, cut off their father/mother, cheated, abused children and many other sins have shown love for religions that would deem them a walking sin factory.

All humans sin. The nature of Christianity is that the church can forgive and absolve and still include the sinner.


Yeah everyone is a walking sin factory because everyone has sinned. The church isn’t condemning you, it’s simply telling you a truth about yourself, whether or not you’d like to admit it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I'm atheist and gay, I just never got how you could be a homosexual and show love for a religion that deems you as a walking sin factory.


The same way that people who have divorced, cut off their father/mother, cheated, abused children and many other sins have shown love for religions that would deem them a walking sin factory.

All humans sin. The nature of Christianity is that the church can forgive and absolve and still include the sinner.


Yeah everyone is a walking sin factory because everyone has sinned. The church isn’t condemning you, it’s simply telling you a truth about yourself, whether or not you’d like to admit it.


BS. My sins are bespoke. I am a walking sin artisanal workshop, not a factory. I don't do mass produced sins. Soon my sins will be completely organic, but I am still having sourcing issues for some ingredients.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How can one be LGBT and religious when the teachings of the church pretty much condemn your existence from the get go?


You can’t. The church doesn’t condemn your existence but it condemns sin.

The Bible is clear on homosexuality (Romans 1:26-28).

It’s be like trying to claim that murder is okay and claiming to be a Christian at the same time. It doesn’t work


It's also clear on greed but you don't see churches stopping greedy people from participating or calling out their son every week.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I'm atheist and gay, I just never got how you could be a homosexual and show love for a religion that deems you as a walking sin factory.


The same way that people who have divorced, cut off their father/mother, cheated, abused children and many other sins have shown love for religions that would deem them a walking sin factory.

All humans sin. The nature of Christianity is that the church can forgive and absolve and still include the sinner.


Yeah everyone is a walking sin factory because everyone has sinned. The church isn’t condemning you, it’s simply telling you a truth about yourself, whether or not you’d like to admit it.


BS. My sins are bespoke. I am a walking sin artisanal workshop, not a factory. I don't do mass produced sins. Soon my sins will be completely organic, but I am still having sourcing issues for some ingredients.


Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How can one be LGBT and religious when the teachings of the church pretty much condemn your existence from the get go?


You can’t. The church doesn’t condemn your existence but it condemns sin.

The Bible is clear on homosexuality (Romans 1:26-28).

It’s be like trying to claim that murder is okay and claiming to be a Christian at the same time. It doesn’t work


The problem is people like you equating the love of 2 men or 2 women with murder.

Moreover, most people (like 99.9%) don't have an ongoing natural inclination to murder someone every single day, where it's part of your dna to murder. Whereas being gay isn't just an urge, it's part of your dna. Just like I could not decide to become gay and be attracted to my same sex, a gay man can't snap his fingers and decide he is no longer attracted to men but only to women.

I've never come across an argument that successfully argues for the evilness of 2 men or 2 women in loving, mutually satisfying relationships beyond God saying it's bad (even the argument where God says its bad because those relationships aren't meant to procreate, as if that's evil in an of itself).

There's no inherent evilness in homosexuality. There's just not. Unlike other sins such as murder, which even without God telling you it's bad, you know it's bad because you are harming not just the person whose life you took but all those who loved him/her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here,

I'm atheist and gay, I just never got how you could be a homosexual and show love for a religion that deems you as a walking sin factory.


The same way that people who have divorced, cut off their father/mother, cheated, abused children and many other sins have shown love for religions that would deem them a walking sin factory.

All humans sin. The nature of Christianity is that the church can forgive and absolve and still include the sinner.


Yeah everyone is a walking sin factory because everyone has sinned. The church isn’t condemning you, it’s simply telling you a truth about yourself, whether or not you’d like to admit it.


That your attraction to and love for another human being are evil?
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