You don't have to start an endless cycle of give and take. You were in need, she helped you. You thank her and return the dish. If she's ever in need then you can help her but you don't have to make everything even. NOW she is in the position of having to thank you on top of having made soup for you. STOP! |
No!! Clean with a little treat inside like some candies. |
When I make meals forothers, I always use disposable and let them know they can keep or toss, no need to return.
If someone use a nice Tupperware for something they made for me, and I still had it ages later, I would absolutely clean it, and fill it with baked goods, brownies or cookies, along with a thank you note. |
Returned clean and a thank you is fine!
But my mother always told me never to return Tupperware empty... so depending on the circumstances, if you’re able, return it with something edible. But my Lord, I can’t take the guilt... so do what you can. |
+1 |
This!! Do something more elaborate when she needs something. Now, just thank her and return it empty. |
I am Indian and I always return Tupperware with some candy in it. |
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I usually get and give food in disposable container. If I return tupperware then either it is not empty OR I include some other treat. A nice box of tea, some cookies, a lotion or flowers. It all depends though, no? What was given, why it was given etc.
We are very close to several of our neighbors and we often get food from them or send them food, if we make something delicious. |
Fifty-year old here!!
“Tupperware” is the name of an actual brand@. Like Honda is the name brand of a vehicle, Avon is the name of a beauty brand + Scott is the name of a company that manufactures toilet tissue, etc. Since most people now use Rubbermaid or other brands of plastic storage ware, they should be referred to as the objects that they are. Not a brand name (even though Tupperware did pave the way!) You wouldn’t call a maxi-pad a “Kotex” would you? I am guilty of doing this however. I call a tissue a “Kleenex.” Lol. |
Thanks for coming out. |
Or, you know, people who had better things to do. |
It’s not that hard to put candy or cookies or whatever treat you have in the container. Geez. |
This is what I like to do, unless it’s a really close friend with whom I regularly trade things in Tupperware. |
I would not expect anything in return but I do think it would be a nice gesture to fill it with something sweet. |