What's the biggest thing you've sacrificed?
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Anonymous
| Looking the other way when DH “fixes” things around the house. He does a super crappy jobs just to save money. |
Anonymous
| Also living in his preferred area |
Anonymous
| Dancing. I love to dance, DH doesn’t (and, frankly, is not great at it). Most hobbies I’ll go out and do on my own, but that is one that just doesn’t feel right to do with someone else. |
Anonymous
| Quiet. He talks and talks and talks and talks.... blah blah blah constant mansplaining. |
Anonymous
+1. I freaking hate it where I live. |
Anonymous
| kink |
Anonymous
| Very little sex. |
Anonymous
| My career. |
Anonymous
| Sex - nothing in 12 1/2 years |
Anonymous
| I'd say my corporate career but I ended up having a career that was fulfilling and really worked out for our family life....but I always wondered how far I could have gone given my academic background and the trajectory I was on. I was lucky in that my DH supported whatever I wanted to do even when it was a hit to our income. No real regrets but I do wonder! |
Anonymous
| My cat. Wish I had kept the cat and ditched the guy. |
Anonymous
Why? |
Anonymous
+2. And I’m divorced but have young kids. It sucks so badly |
Anonymous
same. it was my choice so I don't blame my husband at all |
Anonymous
PP: ED issues and no interest on his part. I went into the marriage knowing he had ED/low drive, but didn’t anticipate no sex, at all, ever. |