What’s it like to be pursued by a man?

[Anonymous]

...and the female human shies away, eyes cast downward in a coy manner. The male human pursues with witticisms, whilst attempting meaningful eye contact. Once the eyes lock, the male human may lightly stroke her neck as the female human preens and requests manicures and expensive handbags...once the handbag is exchanged, the male human is invited to squeeze her knee.

I got an erection reading this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

...and the female human shies away, eyes cast downward in a coy manner. The male human pursues with witticisms, whilst attempting meaningful eye contact. Once the eyes lock, the male human may lightly stroke her neck as the female human preens and requests manicures and expensive handbags...once the handbag is exchanged, the male human is invited to squeeze her knee.

I got an erection reading this.

It takes all kinds. My idea of erotica is less tame and more creative and debaucherous, but that’s a good start.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

...and the female human shies away, eyes cast downward in a coy manner. The male human pursues with witticisms, whilst attempting meaningful eye contact. Once the eyes lock, the male human may lightly stroke her neck as the female human preens and requests manicures and expensive handbags...once the handbag is exchanged, the male human is invited to squeeze her knee.

I got an erection reading this.

It takes all kinds. My idea of erotica is less tame and more creative and debaucherous, but that’s a good start.

the joke went over your head.

[Anonymous]

It’s flattering, unless it isn’t. When it’s good it feels sexy and it’s a better high than any drug I’ve had. (I’ve never had heroin though.) If I play hard to get and he takes the bait, it’s the best game of cat and mouse. It’s like working out so hard you earn that cheesecake then you get to say no, I’m not hungry after all. But you know it’s yours whenever you want it. Then when you let yourself get caught, if you’ve played your cards right, he’s worth the wait and it’s really like solving the best puzzle.

The flip side is when you’re not playing hard to get and someone is pursuing you and you wish they wouldn’t. It can range from annoying to scary. It’s every bit as unpleasant as the other scenario is fulfilling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, it can be annoying at first. If he has sense of humor and can laugh at himself, that helps. My husband asked me to date him for about a year and I wouldn’t. We would go out in a group with other friends, but I just wasn’t attracted to him physically. I eventually started to really like being around him and agreed to date him. I fell in love with him soon after. The best part of being chased is how hard they work to keep you after you agree to date. I was showered with expensive presents ie electronics, jewelry, dinners, manicures, pedicures, hair salon appts, shopping sprees, massages, flowers etc. I’ve never felt so adored. That never happens when I do the chasing.

Your husband is an idiot.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, it can be annoying at first. If he has sense of humor and can laugh at himself, that helps. My husband asked me to date him for about a year and I wouldn’t. We would go out in a group with other friends, but I just wasn’t attracted to him physically. I eventually started to really like being around him and agreed to date him. I fell in love with him soon after. The best part of being chased is how hard they work to keep you after you agree to date. I was showered with expensive presents ie electronics, jewelry, dinners, manicures, pedicures, hair salon appts, shopping sprees, massages, flowers etc. I’ve never felt so adored. That never happens when I do the chasing.

Your husband is an idiot.

+100

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, it can be annoying at first. If he has sense of humor and can laugh at himself, that helps. My husband asked me to date him for about a year and I wouldn’t. We would go out in a group with other friends, but I just wasn’t attracted to him physically. I eventually started to really like being around him and agreed to date him. I fell in love with him soon after. The best part of being chased is how hard they work to keep you after you agree to date. I was showered with expensive presents ie electronics, jewelry, dinners, manicures, pedicures, hair salon appts, shopping sprees, massages, flowers etc. I’ve never felt so adored. That never happens when I do the chasing.

I would never do any of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know you’re wanted, without question. And that feels pretty damn good when you want them too.

Exactly!