Have you ever found out that someone is having an affair and thought to yourself...

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People always affair down.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People always affair down.

Oh honey.

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

DP. Why don’t you respect yourself enough to block his number?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:People always affair down.

Unless you are a celebrity.

Tiger woods banged a waitress in a parking lot.

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

DP. Why don’t you respect yourself enough to block his number?

We work in similar careers so I may need to work with him in the future. There aren’t any hard feelings between us. He wasn’t truthful with me, but shit happens. I don’t hate him. I have had to see him at work related things after all of this and it’s not very awkward. He doesn’t cross any boundaries and we are cordial. When he texts and I don’t respond, he doesn’t follow up, and acts no differently if I see him. So I kind of act like it never happened and aside from the random texts every few months, so does he.

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

DP. Why don’t you respect yourself enough to block his number?

We work in similar careers so I may need to work with him in the future. There aren’t any hard feelings between us. He wasn’t truthful with me, but shit happens. I don’t hate him. I have had to see him at work related things after all of this and it’s not very awkward. He doesn’t cross any boundaries and we are cordial. When he texts and I don’t respond, he doesn’t follow up, and acts no differently if I see him. So I kind of act like it never happened and aside from the random texts every few months, so does he.

If he needed to work with you, you can use professional contact numbers. Just admit that you get an ego boost from his periodic texts.

[Anonymous]

They want different, They want someone where they don’t have to be mom/dad/spouse and deal with the mundane. They want someone who is nice to them. There are a million reasons.

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

DP. Why don’t you respect yourself enough to block his number?

We work in similar careers so I may need to work with him in the future. There aren’t any hard feelings between us. He wasn’t truthful with me, but shit happens. I don’t hate him. I have had to see him at work related things after all of this and it’s not very awkward. He doesn’t cross any boundaries and we are cordial. When he texts and I don’t respond, he doesn’t follow up, and acts no differently if I see him. So I kind of act like it never happened and aside from the random texts every few months, so does he.

If he needed to work with you, you can use professional contact numbers. Just admit that you get an ego boost from his periodic texts.

I don’t, but like I said before, whatever makes you feel good about yourself. I am a professional, and he is too, for the most part. I’m a grown up who doesn’t need to delete/block exes because I can’t act right. I’m sorry that you think everyone has to go through life blocking everyone who’s done them wrong or who isn’t a perfect fit into their life. I am married now to someone else, very happily so. If I wanted an ego boost, I’d toy with the ex in return. I feel nothing toward him. For what it’s worth, I don’t have a work cell phone and my job isn’t a typical desk job. I just really don’t care enough to have to go that far.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They want different, They want someone where they don’t have to be mom/dad/spouse and deal with the mundane. They want someone who is nice to them. There are a million reasons.

This makes sense. I suppose if you looked at me & my AP you could come to similar conclusions. His wife is objectively better looking than i am. And my AP is taller than my H, but not as good looking. But in terms of personality and what i get from the relationship ... It is more than just looks. I needed to be able to love somebody (who wasn't my H.) AP needed to have sex with somebody (because he and his wife weren't). It was win-win whileit lasted.

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

DP. Why don’t you respect yourself enough to block his number?

We work in similar careers so I may need to work with him in the future. There aren’t any hard feelings between us. He wasn’t truthful with me, but shit happens. I don’t hate him. I have had to see him at work related things after all of this and it’s not very awkward. He doesn’t cross any boundaries and we are cordial. When he texts and I don’t respond, he doesn’t follow up, and acts no differently if I see him. So I kind of act like it never happened and aside from the random texts every few months, so does he.

If he needed to work with you, you can use professional contact numbers. Just admit that you get an ego boost from his periodic texts.

I don’t, but like I said before, whatever makes you feel good about yourself. I am a professional, and he is too, for the most part. I’m a grown up who doesn’t need to delete/block exes because I can’t act right. I’m sorry that you think everyone has to go through life blocking everyone who’s done them wrong or who isn’t a perfect fit into their life. I am married now to someone else, very happily so. If I wanted an ego boost, I’d toy with the ex in return. I feel nothing toward him. For what it’s worth, I don’t have a work cell phone and my job isn’t a typical desk job. I just really don’t care enough to have to go that far.

Your DH is okay with the married man you used to sleep with texting your personal cell for non-work purposes?

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

DP. Why don’t you respect yourself enough to block his number?

We work in similar careers so I may need to work with him in the future. There aren’t any hard feelings between us. He wasn’t truthful with me, but shit happens. I don’t hate him. I have had to see him at work related things after all of this and it’s not very awkward. He doesn’t cross any boundaries and we are cordial. When he texts and I don’t respond, he doesn’t follow up, and acts no differently if I see him. So I kind of act like it never happened and aside from the random texts every few months, so does he.

If he needed to work with you, you can use professional contact numbers. Just admit that you get an ego boost from his periodic texts.

I don’t, but like I said before, whatever makes you feel good about yourself. I am a professional, and he is too, for the most part. I’m a grown up who doesn’t need to delete/block exes because I can’t act right. I’m sorry that you think everyone has to go through life blocking everyone who’s done them wrong or who isn’t a perfect fit into their life. I am married now to someone else, very happily so. If I wanted an ego boost, I’d toy with the ex in return. I feel nothing toward him. For what it’s worth, I don’t have a work cell phone and my job isn’t a typical desk job. I just really don’t care enough to have to go that far.

Your DH is okay with the married man you used to sleep with texting your personal cell for non-work purposes?

Yes, he actually knows about the whole thing! He was the next person I dated afterward. He trusts me, so the times he has seen a text from him, we laugh. I haven’t made him delete his exes from his phone either. Neither of us is threatened by the other’s exes.

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Anonymous wrote:I “dated” a married man (didn’t know it at first but that’s a story for another day) who had a dad bod but he just had that certain sexy something and was an absolute tiger in the sack. I couldn’t get enough. (And no, it wasn’t the “off limits” factor because I didn’t know at first, and it was this intense from the get go.)

Sounds like soulmate material. What happened?

I found out he was married, duh. With no imminent plans to leave, so...bye lol

Guess if he had no plans to leave he said “bye” to you, duh.

Considering that it’s almost 5 years later and he still randomly texts me (with no response from me), I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t have said “bye” for a long time. Whatever makes you feel good about yourself though. I hope you have a nice day.

DP. Why don’t you respect yourself enough to block his number?

Wow. Take your meds already.

We work in similar careers so I may need to work with him in the future. There aren’t any hard feelings between us. He wasn’t truthful with me, but shit happens. I don’t hate him. I have had to see him at work related things after all of this and it’s not very awkward. He doesn’t cross any boundaries and we are cordial. When he texts and I don’t respond, he doesn’t follow up, and acts no differently if I see him. So I kind of act like it never happened and aside from the random texts every few months, so does he.

If he needed to work with you, you can use professional contact numbers. Just admit that you get an ego boost from his periodic texts.