Any married LAT couples?

[Anonymous]

I like this idea.

[Anonymous]

DH and I are looking forward to this arrangement as I think it would make life so much easier. We do agree about being together, but have very different ways of living and spending money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My SO and I are in our late 50's and we are very committed to each other but we live about ten minutes apart. He really likes his place and I like mine and we also both like our own quiet time. We spend about 4-5 nights a week together with a couple of weeknights off. We both keep plenty of things at each other's place so I never really have to pack anything. We are both in good shape financially so the double expense isn't a big problem. We both plan on retiring in a couple of years and we've been discussing getting a warm weather winter place that we would share.

How does this qualify if you aren’t married though? Lots of couples don’t live together; that’s not unusual. It’s the married but not living together that’s unusual.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Me, I suppose. Together 8 years, fully committed relationship. We live a 5 minute walk apart in separate places. It's not really the forever plan, but we both really enjoy the setup. I really, really love living alone. We are so close, we can go between apartments but still have the luxury of pure alone time in our own spaces. I just can't think of how much money we spend doing this, but it's otherwise pretty great.

Do you sleep together or separately in your own places?

Together on the weekends, separately during the week for the most part with occasional mid-week sleepovers.

Are youmarried? If so, did you ever live together?

[Anonymous]

I am dating someone with teenage kids and seriously wondering if we should do this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am dating someone with teenage kids and seriously wondering if we should do this.

In a similar situation and I think if the relationship has any chance of success this is we would be doing

[Anonymous]

Here’s a good read on this topic.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/sep/23/never-lived-together-married-couples-live-apart