| Can we please stop putting labels on people? Sexuality is more fluid that anyone wants to admit. It is plausible to consider oneself gay and then fall in love and be sexually attracted to someone of another gender. |
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NP here;
In fairness, I was engaged to a woman, she died, I grieved, dated women again, stopped dating and when I started dating again, ended up married to a man. He reminded me of my late spouse (not in looks) and how she loved me. Before my kids entered public school most of my friends knew. However my new "mommy' friends don't. Hasn't been a problem until now. I have gay mommy friends and didn't tell them this story early on and can't quite fit it into the conversation. I know, lame. ideas? |