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Anonymous wrote:The lawyer. I like nice things.
But that's my priority. If the hairdresser is a better personality fit or has the qualities you want - like you think she'd make a better mother than the lawyer or you come from the same hometown and you think you want to move back with someone who understands that community - then the hairdresser.
Also only the lawyer if she plans to keep working. If she doesn't, it doesn't really matter does it?
Lol here is your answer ladies. The man who wants to marry the lawyer is the one who can't buy his own nice things. Enjoy!
The man better be able to do his share of the housechores/childcare then, too.
The beauty of this choice? Outsourcing is not only possible, its generally preferable.
can't outsource everything unless you don't care about seeing your kid for more than 30min/day, or talking/reading/playing with your kid for 10min.
We had a nanny. We were home by 4 and 4:30. Kids went to bed at 7 when they were toddler/babies. I don't want to outsource all of my parenting duties. Why bother having kids, then?