Husband turns 30 tomorrow

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wanted to spend some of the last few hours of his 29th year with him. He is still out with his work friends.

I feel disappointed.

Grow up and celebrate his birthday tomorrow. Sheesh.

Disagree. There is no good reason for a married man to be out celebrating his birthday at this time of night with his coworkers without his wife. A drink after work for an hour or two sure. Till 11 pm wife should be involved. Husband is immature.

Really? My 30th was a girls night out (slept at a friend’s) hubs was totally fine with it. Was a married mom of 3 at the time.

OP you should have voiced this ahead of time.

The important piece is your husband did not want to celebrate with you and didn’t mind you partying with your friends.

[Anonymous]

When my husband turned 30 I threw him a big surprise b-day party. The really big surprise was that a friend I invited brought an ex BF of mine as her date to my surprise and the surprise of my husband. Awkward! My husband was very nice to him but did tell him to eat his heart out! Overall it was a hell of a party!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wanted to spend some of the last few hours of his 29th year with him. He is still out with his work friends.

I feel disappointed.

Did you mention that to him before? If not, he have no way of knowing that so hopefully you’ll temper your disappointment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wanted to spend some of the last few hours of his 29th year with him. He is still out with his work friends.

I feel disappointed.

Grow up and celebrate his birthday tomorrow. Sheesh.

Disagree. There is no good reason for a married man to be out celebrating his birthday at this time of night with his coworkers without his wife. A drink after work for an hour or two sure. Till 11 pm wife should be involved. Husband is immature.

Really? My 30th was a girls night out (slept at a friend’s) hubs was totally fine with it. Was a married mom of 3 at the time.

OP you should have voiced this ahead of time.

+1

[Anonymous]

Please. Let him celebrate with his friends.

[Anonymous]

YOU

SUCK!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wanted to spend some of the last few hours of his 29th year with him. He is still out with his work friends.

I feel disappointed.

Grow up and celebrate his birthday tomorrow. Sheesh.

Disagree. There is no good reason for a married man to be out celebrating his birthday at this time of night with his coworkers without his wife. A drink after work for an hour or two sure. Till 11 pm wife should be involved. Husband is immature.

Really? My 30th was a girls night out (slept at a friend’s) hubs was totally fine with it. Was a married mom of 3 at the time.

OP you should have voiced this ahead of time.

+1

How do you know she didn’t?

But really should you have to tell your husband you want to spend time with him on his birthday? Come on men don’t become stupid just because they put a ring on

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When my husband turned 30 I threw him a big surprise b-day party. The really big surprise was that a friend I invited brought an ex BF of mine as her date to my surprise and the surprise of my husband. Awkward! My husband was very nice to him but did tell him to eat his heart out! Overall it was a hell of a party!

"Eat your heart out"??? People really say that? You and your husband both sound unsufferable. I'm sure your ex came as your friend's dat because he was way past being over you. You and DH just embarrassed yourselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:YOU

SUCK!!

Is this a suggestion?

[Anonymous]

He probably left you at home because you are a drag. Exhibit A: He's out celebrating with coworkers and you are home whining on the couch hoping that he can read your mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wanted to spend some of the last few hours of his 29th year with him. He is still out with his work friends.

I feel disappointed.

Grow up and celebrate his birthday tomorrow. Sheesh.

Disagree. There is no good reason for a married man to be out celebrating his birthday at this time of night with his coworkers without his wife. A drink after work for an hour or two sure. Till 11 pm wife should be involved. Husband is immature.

Really? My 30th was a girls night out (slept at a friend’s) hubs was totally fine with it. Was a married mom of 3 at the time.

OP you should have voiced this ahead of time.

How do you know she didn’t?

But really should you have to tell your husband you want to spend time with him on his birthday? Come on men don’t become stupid just because they put a ring on

NP It wasn't his birthday it was the day before! Op, there is nothing magical about the day before your birthday. Even though my daughter tried to make it happen...think of her name plus "eve" after so it is like New year's eve.

You should be happy he has friends. I hope you have something special planned!
+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wanted to spend some of the last few hours of his 29th year with him. He is still out with his work friends.

I feel disappointed.

Grow up and celebrate his birthday tomorrow. Sheesh.

Disagree. There is no good reason for a married man to be out celebrating his birthday at this time of night with his coworkers without his wife. A drink after work for an hour or two sure. Till 11 pm wife should be involved. Husband is immature.

Really? My 30th was a girls night out (slept at a friend’s) hubs was totally fine with it. Was a married mom of 3 at the time.

OP you should have voiced this ahead of time.

+1

How do you know she didn’t?

But really should you have to tell your husband you want to spend time with him on his birthday? Come on men don’t become stupid just because they put a ring on

It's not his birthday. It was the day BEFORE his birthday. Yikes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wanted to spend some of the last few hours of his 29th year with him. He is still out with his work friends.

I feel disappointed.

I can understand wanting to spend the last few hours of his life with him. But the last few hours of his 29th year? Did you do the same for the last few hours of his 28th year? Or his last few hours as a non-pet owner? Or his last few hours before he ate the best bowl of chili in his life? Of his last few hours before he shaved his beard for the first time?

I mean, what?

[Anonymous]

Don't listen to the sad old women

Just have fun with him tomorrow

You are lucky you convinced him to get married in his 20s

[Anonymous]

Don't let this trivial want of yours cast a shadow over his birthday. He went out with his friends the night prior to his birthday. He likely thought spending his actual birthday with you, would have been your priority. He is not just your husband. He is also a friend, son, possibly brother and father. Don't make him feel pulled in multiple directions, not able to make anyone happy. This is his birthday. A time to celebrate him. Don't make it about you.