| And yeah not all of us can't keep up at 8 months. I never struggled when I went back to work. I had great supply until 12 months. By law work only has to accommodate pumping for 12 months so I stopped then. Stil nursed though |
| Don’t on CL. You will invite all kinds of weirdos and sickos. |
| Don’t be a jerk, donate it. I use milk bank of Austin and it’s super easy. Drop off at DC breast center or they ship you coolers. |
Having to release is the same as having to pee. If I’m running errands, I still have to pee. Even if I only could pump for 5-10 minutes I would go to the car and pump. Every single day. I’ve pumped on planes next to strangers, bathrooms in airport if no Mother’s room, etc.. |
| you can, sure, but it's really looked down upon. donate it instead. |
| Gross |
| Please don't sell it. The DC Breastfeeding Center can provide info on donating it. There is a lot of need for donor breast milk. Selling it would be like selling blood instead of donating. |
| Human Milk for Human Babies is another site for Mom to Mom donations |
| You do you OP. There is a fair amount of oppression built into looking down on selling breast milk. A meaningful quote I once hear went something like “breastfeeding is only free, if women’s time is worthless.” |
+1 NP - I know that undersupply and tongue ties and many other breastfeeding issues are a huge amount of work, but these women clearly have no clue how hard an oversupply is. It is an immense challenge for some of us. I can’t breastfeed in public until the afternoon when my supply has slowed down or I will gush everywhere (EVERYWHERE); if my baby sleeps extra long, I *will* get a clogged duct. I choose to donate, but it’s also honestly kind of a pain in the ass. OP can do whatever she wants because it’s her effing milk and her time. |
Dude, not even close. Do you have any idea how much work it is to carry a pump everywhere, wake up in the middle of the night while your baby sleeps because you *must* pump, painstakingly collect, label, and store milk, wash so many goddamn storage bottles every day, and THEN deal with donation? Donation is a beautiful thing, but it’s spectacularly idiotic to compare it to something as easy as donating blood. |
I mean I get it because I also pump. I just don't know why you'd want to. So many ways to decrease supply. I've done it myself. I like to run errands or go on weekend trips and not be tied to a pump. I have so many days where I don't have access to a pump. Surely it's taking time away from your family? |
+1 I am like that too. I blockfed (where you only feed from one side at each feeding) the entire 16 months I breastfed; I could drastically cut down on pumping for a couple weeks, and then get my supply right back up within a few days. It's just how my body works. It's definitely possible that your oversupply will last throughout the whole time you breastfeed. I agree that unless you have a reason to want a lot of extra milk, there's no need for you to pump as often as you have been - pumping is kind of a PITA. That said, if you do choose to there are plenty of worthy places to donate, and people who will be extremely appreciative. For me, that route felt rewarding and I chose to pump a few extra times a week, and donated hundreds of ounces over a year or so. (...for my first! About to have my second and somehow I doubt this will happen to the same extent) The main place I posted was on my local Human Milk 4 Human babies group (on fb) - there is always a long list of people looking for donors, and they are incredibly appreciative. Re selling it...I hear you. For some reason this is apparently super looked down on, and I don't know that it should be on principle. I mean...men donate sperm for money, and I daresay that process is more enjoyable than a pumping session (or 10!). I guess one practical consideration is that if people are selling it for a profit, you have to start worrying about harmful solutions/substitutions/etc |
| ^dilutions, not solutions |
| I appreciate the desire to sell it, especially given the way womens work is historically undervalued, but absent a safe marketplace with controls and standards, donation is the better path to safely share milk. Once money is involved you get all kinds of perverse incentives-- so, for example, you may sell your milk to someone who buys it, alters it on some way to increase volume (adding water or cows milk for example), and resells it-- potentially harming the eventual recipient. I've never produced enough to share, and as a working mom who pumps I appreciate that it isn't an easy thing to do, but I think at least for now it needs to be a labor of love, not a revenue stream. |