My Girlfriend Is Selfish..

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I always get more oral than BF gets BJs. Not b/c I'm selfish. Because it's how I get to the big O. She comes first. That doesn't mean He doesn't come at all, though.



OP here. I’m 32 and have been with my fair share. I know many women have issues achieving orgasming without oral, but not her. She easily orgasms both orally and through intercourse. I don’t expect things to be matched up, but giving me a 5 minute oral session 2-3 times a week, while I give her a 20-30 minute session almost daily sucks. Then she orgasms again from intercourse. It’s also just the fact that when we have phone sex, she will get off the phone once she is down, even if I’m still not. It sucks.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How old are you and gf?



Op here. I’m 32 and she is 31.
Anonymous
You are a whiny baby OP. You are framing this as her being selfish but your only true issue is you want more sexual attention. You sure as hell aren’t going to get that by whining or giving her long oral sessions. This is not tit for tat. You have to inspire her and you don’t.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You are a whiny baby OP. You are framing this as her being selfish but your only true issue is you want more sexual attention. You sure as hell aren’t going to get that by whining or giving her long oral sessions. This is not tit for tat. You have to inspire her and you don’t.

This!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You are a whiny baby OP. You are framing this as her being selfish but your only true issue is you want more sexual attention. You sure as hell aren’t going to get that by whining or giving her long oral sessions. This is not tit for tat. You have to inspire her and you don’t.



I’m a woman and agree with OP. His girlfriend is selfish.
Anonymous
How long have you been dating?
Anonymous
Op, you need to keep in mind the purpose of dating. It's to find a good match. It's not to determine if her behavior is right of wrong. Crowd sourcing an answer won't help. You are allowed a preference for different behavior, a different person.
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