My Girlfiend Is Gross..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I found out my new girlfriend has been sleeping with a guy for money. I won’t say how I found out, but I’m disgusted. I confronted her, and she told me it was for the past year to pay off SL debt, but she cut it off when we started having sex. I’m not sure how much of it’s true, but I don’t know if I can trust her or see her in the same light. The thought of her basically being some guys pr**titute make me sick. The hard part is I love her, and until I found out, I really thought she was the one. We just do so well together. I know judging past actions is never good, but this is a little more than being promiscuous or a party girl. I’m hurt, confused, and angry.

News flash, women have been sleeping with guys for money since the dawn of time. You don't see hot chicks banging janitors, do you?

At least your GF has the integrity to admit it to you. You don't see your average gold digger admitting this stuff.

[Anonymous]

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It is different. Are you kidding? Taking cash for sex is the same as dating?

There's a fine line between modern dating and prostitution, don't pretend otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I found out my new girlfriend has been sleeping with a guy for money. I won’t say how I found out, but I’m disgusted. I confronted her, and she told me it was for the past year to pay off SL debt, but she cut it off when we started having sex. I’m not sure how much of it’s true, but I don’t know if I can trust her or see her in the same light. The thought of her basically being some guys pr**titute make me sick. The hard part is I love her, and until I found out, I really thought she was the one. We just do so well together. I know judging past actions is never good, but this is a little more than being promiscuous or a party girl. I’m hurt, confused, and angry.

Had you plan to marry her and take on the school debt? Just curious. But your girl should find a new beau either way as you two aren't equally yoked.

[Anonymous]

*planned

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a question of morals. Imagine if you had kids— a daughter— together. You would set very different standards as parents. Not worth the heartache.

Not entirely true. My DH doesn’t know, but I had a generous fwb back in college. It was for 6 months and it helped me pay down a good amount of debt. Looking back, it’s not something I’m proud of, and I would never want my child to do something like that.

You’re a whore.

NP you are trash. If PP is a whore what does that make the man who gave her the gifts and prizes in exchange for sex?

[Anonymous]

This is nothing I would ever do as I am just too sexually conservative but I always find it funny how when women use their bodies to do whatever they like and men pay to use those bodies, somehow they WOMEN are the bad players in the transaction. Don't ever die patriarchy and misogyny

[Anonymous]

I only wish I could of pulled this off. She is one smart cookie.

[Anonymous]

On the bright side, less debt for you two to start off with. Shame she did not make enough for down payment on a house.

[Anonymous]

A key question is how this got started in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is nothing I would ever do as I am just too sexually conservative but I always find it funny how when women use their bodies to do whatever they like and men pay to use those bodies, somehow they WOMEN are the bad players in the transaction. Don't ever die patriarchy and misogyny

Takes two to tango. The women are no better, nor any worse, than the men in these circumstances.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On the bright side, less debt for you two to start off with. Shame she did not make enough for down payment on a house.

So why stop now, really?

[Anonymous]

Girlfriend? or ex girlfriend?

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Op. You can only do what you feel is right. Frankly, finding out that your girl was basically a prostitute?

Listen, it's up to you. It either turns you on or off. But what has she done to make sure it's over and done? Do you really want to DNA your kids?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a question of morals. Imagine if you had kids— a daughter— together. You would set very different standards as parents. Not worth the heartache.

Not entirely true. My DH doesn’t know, but I had a generous fwb back in college. It was for 6 months and it helped me pay down a good amount of debt. Looking back, it’s not something I’m proud of, and I would never want my child to do something like that.

You’re a whore.

NP you are trash. If PP is a whore what does that make the man who gave her the gifts and prizes in exchange for sex?

I don't see a lie in his statement.

p.s. the man was a john.

[Anonymous]

No way does she end that cash flow just because she is now dating you.