Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, I haven’t posted before.
There’s NOTHING to gain. We’ve been married a year. Bought the house 6 months ago. There’s no equity in the home. I have no interest in his retirement account considering he just started contributing to a 401k in his 30’s. I’m 29 and have plenty of time left to start over and I have no interest in holding him financially hostage EVEN IF there was something to gain. Both our vehicles were bought and financed prior to marriage. We don’t have any joint assets aside from the house which again has no equity in it.
You need an attorney. When you have an asset together, you can't just stomp your feet and say, I don't wanna do this anymore. There may not be equity in the home but it doesn't mean you don't have to deal with it!