Worst mother's day stories

[Anonymous]

Husband was out of town visiting a relative who had just had surgery. I figured I'd make reservations to treat my mom, my kids and myself to a nice Mother's Day brunch at a lovely and usually wonderful scenic little restaurant.

Arrived at the restaurant 15 minutes before our reservation and it was jam packed chaos. Hostess told us to wait and she would seat us. We stepped aside as she requested and she never acknowledged us again. We waited for over an hour, standing the entire, no place for my 80+ year old mother to sit down . It became apparent to us that the people who had been seated were waiting forever for their food to arrive....the staff completely unapologetic...

We left to go somewhere, anywhere else. By that point McDonald's sounded good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Abusive ex has sent DD over with a handmade card the last two years. A**hole. He couldn't be bothered to do anything when we were married, and this is just a purppseful mindf***. I hung it up. She tried to write happy mother's day. I love that she wrote it.

He will mever get anything for father's day from me unless school sends it home.

Pretty sure you would be on here complaining every year if your ex didn't have your DC make or buy a card.

[Anonymous]

All dressed up in my pretty floral dress and strappy heels....On my way out the door to a Mother's Day celebration, caught my toe on the corner of the door mat and went sprawling. Twisted my ankle and cracked my nose good in the process.

[Anonymous]

^MIL still likes to remind me about "that year that Mother's Day got ruined".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Three years ago I was enjoying a lovely Mother’s Day working on our teeny tiny front “yard” of our rowhouse with teen ds. I was weeding under the Japanese maple oak, went to stand up and cut my head on a stub on a branch.

“Mom, I think something’s wrong. You have blood dripping down your face.”

I guess freaking your kid out and getting stitches in your head on Mother’s Day makes it the worst for me.

Ha! Last year, my DH stabbed himself in the hand while opening up my gift. He got blood all over my mom's new house, and because my family is a family of very loud, very nosy busy-bodies, everyone freaked out and all went to the hospital with him. While there I ran into an ex-boyfriend. It was fun.

Now we joke about how only a blood sacrifice will satisfy me on Mother's Day

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Abusive ex has sent DD over with a handmade card the last two years. A**hole. He couldn't be bothered to do anything when we were married, and this is just a purppseful mindf***. I hung it up. She tried to write happy mother's day. I love that she wrote it.

He will mever get anything for father's day from me unless school sends it home.

Pretty sure you would be on here complaining every year if your ex didn't have your DC make or buy a card.

Not a chance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Abusive ex has sent DD over with a handmade card the last two years. A**hole. He couldn't be bothered to do anything when we were married, and this is just a purppseful mindf***. I hung it up. She tried to write happy mother's day. I love that she wrote it.

He will mever get anything for father's day from me unless school sends it home.

Why do you have to (choose to) read a handmade card as a purposeful mind$&@k? Maybe your daughter wants to make one!

I'm widowed and my Dad took my younger DC shopping and offered to give her money to increase her $3 budget. She was not having it. She must make the card herself and knows the perfect gift for me is a marzipan ritter sport at $2.49.

Why not view your handmade card as a way bigger expression of love than a hallmark canned greeting, made with care and thought into what you will like, and pride in trying to write it out herself?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Abusive ex has sent DD over with a handmade card the last two years. A**hole. He couldn't be bothered to do anything when we were married, and this is just a purppseful mindf***. I hung it up. She tried to write happy mother's day. I love that she wrote it.

He will mever get anything for father's day from me unless school sends it home.

Why do you have to (choose to) read a handmade card as a purposeful mind$&@k? Maybe your daughter wants to make one!

I'm widowed and my Dad took my younger DC shopping and offered to give her money to increase her $3 budget. She was not having it. She must make the card herself and knows the perfect gift for me is a marzipan ritter sport at $2.49.

Why not view your handmade card as a way bigger expression of love than a hallmark canned greeting, made with care and thought into what you will like, and pride in trying to write it out herself?

I think Op is bitter because when they were married her ex never did a thing for her for Mother's Day. Now that they are divorced he is suddenly doing something thoughtful for Op which also gives her daughter the impression that Daddy has always been a nice and thoughtful guy to Op. In reality, he's "nice" to Op to make HIMSELF look good in the eyes of his daughter. Op knows this and it truly grates on her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Abusive ex has sent DD over with a handmade card the last two years. A**hole. He couldn't be bothered to do anything when we were married, and this is just a purppseful mindf***. I hung it up. She tried to write happy mother's day. I love that she wrote it.

He will mever get anything for father's day from me unless school sends it home.

Why do you have to (choose to) read a handmade card as a purposeful mind$&@k? Maybe your daughter wants to make one!

I'm widowed and my Dad took my younger DC shopping and offered to give her money to increase her $3 budget. She was not having it. She must make the card herself and knows the perfect gift for me is a marzipan ritter sport at $2.49.

Why not view your handmade card as a way bigger expression of love than a hallmark canned greeting, made with care and thought into what you will like, and pride in trying to write it out herself?

I think Op is bitter because when they were married her ex never did a thing for her for Mother's Day. Now that they are divorced he is suddenly doing something thoughtful for Op which also gives her daughter the impression that Daddy has always been a nice and thoughtful guy to Op. In reality, he's "nice" to Op to make HIMSELF look good in the eyes of his daughter. Op knows this and it truly grates on her.

Op needs to let go of the bitterness. I see nothing wrong with the card

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Abusive ex has sent DD over with a handmade card the last two years. A**hole. He couldn't be bothered to do anything when we were married, and this is just a purppseful mindf***. I hung it up. She tried to write happy mother's day. I love that she wrote it.

He will mever get anything for father's day from me unless school sends it home.

Why do you have to (choose to) read a handmade card as a purposeful mind$&@k? Maybe your daughter wants to make one!

I'm widowed and my Dad took my younger DC shopping and offered to give her money to increase her $3 budget. She was not having it. She must make the card herself and knows the perfect gift for me is a marzipan ritter sport at $2.49.

Why not view your handmade card as a way bigger expression of love than a hallmark canned greeting, made with care and thought into what you will like, and pride in trying to write it out herself?

I think Op is bitter because when they were married her ex never did a thing for her for Mother's Day. Now that they are divorced he is suddenly doing something thoughtful for Op which also gives her daughter the impression that Daddy has always been a nice and thoughtful guy to Op. In reality, he's "nice" to Op to make HIMSELF look good in the eyes of his daughter. Op knows this and it truly grates on her.

Op needs to let go of the bitterness. I see nothing wrong with the card

Op should focus on the fact that her DAUGHTER is doing something sweet for her on Mother's Day. That's the important thing. Forget the ex.

I totally understand how Op does not want to be put in the position of doing something equally thoughtful for her ex on Father's Day. But I think that Op should provide her daughter with construction paper, markers, etc and give her daughter the opportunity to do something thoughtful for her dad on Father's Day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Husband was out of town visiting a relative who had just had surgery. I figured I'd make reservations to treat my mom, my kids and myself to a nice Mother's Day brunch at a lovely and usually wonderful scenic little restaurant.

Arrived at the restaurant 15 minutes before our reservation and it was jam packed chaos. Hostess told us to wait and she would seat us. We stepped aside as she requested and she never acknowledged us again. We waited for over an hour, standing the entire, no place for my 80+ year old mother to sit down . It became apparent to us that the people who had been seated were waiting forever for their food to arrive....the staff completely unapologetic...

We left to go somewhere, anywhere else. By that point McDonald's sounded good.

You actually just waited for an hour? Why didn’t you complain/ask to speak to a manager?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Husband was out of town visiting a relative who had just had surgery. I figured I'd make reservations to treat my mom, my kids and myself to a nice Mother's Day brunch at a lovely and usually wonderful scenic little restaurant.

Arrived at the restaurant 15 minutes before our reservation and it was jam packed chaos. Hostess told us to wait and she would seat us. We stepped aside as she requested and she never acknowledged us again. We waited for over an hour, standing the entire, no place for my 80+ year old mother to sit down . It became apparent to us that the people who had been seated were waiting forever for their food to arrive....the staff completely unapologetic...

We left to go somewhere, anywhere else. By that point McDonald's sounded good.

You actually just waited for an hour? Why didn’t you complain/ask to speak to a manager?

The manager was nowhere to be seen. The place was chaotic and the whole thing was not being handled well, reservations were clearly not being honored. We kept thinking that we would be seated any minute since we did have a reservation but once we realized that the people who had been seated were waiting an hour or more for their food....we finally gave up and left.

There was nothing we could have said or done to save that train wreck.

[Anonymous]

That’s why you never, ever go out on holidays. Restaurants suck and are over crowded.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Abusive ex has sent DD over with a handmade card the last two years. A**hole. He couldn't be bothered to do anything when we were married, and this is just a purppseful mindf***. I hung it up. She tried to write happy mother's day. I love that she wrote it.

He will mever get anything for father's day from me unless school sends it home.

Why do you have to (choose to) read a handmade card as a purposeful mind$&@k? Maybe your daughter wants to make one!

I'm widowed and my Dad took my younger DC shopping and offered to give her money to increase her $3 budget. She was not having it. She must make the card herself and knows the perfect gift for me is a marzipan ritter sport at $2.49.

Why not view your handmade card as a way bigger expression of love than a hallmark canned greeting, made with care and thought into what you will like, and pride in trying to write it out herself?

I think Op is bitter because when they were married her ex never did a thing for her for Mother's Day. Now that they are divorced he is suddenly doing something thoughtful for Op which also gives her daughter the impression that Daddy has always been a nice and thoughtful guy to Op. In reality, he's "nice" to Op to make HIMSELF look good in the eyes of his daughter. Op knows this and it truly grates on her.

Op needs to let go of the bitterness. I see nothing wrong with the card

Op should focus on the fact that her DAUGHTER is doing something sweet for her on Mother's Day. That's the important thing. Forget the ex.

I totally understand how Op does not want to be put in the position of doing something equally thoughtful for her ex on Father's Day. But I think that Op should provide her daughter with construction paper, markers, etc and give her daughter the opportunity to do something thoughtful for her dad on Father's Day.

Only if her daughter asks for it.

[Anonymous]

How about this year I’ll be thinking about my daughter who committed suicide last month. Late dinner reservations? A handmade card? These are your complaints? Be grateful for what you have while you have it. Happy Mother’s Day!