How to dress to attract a rich ambitious guy?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think there’s any one way. The big thing is having access to this sort of man, which is probably best done by having high achievements yourself. Because ambitious and wealthy people are more likely to be found within high achieve circles. A little goes a long way in this group, most people in these circles aren’t super concerned with fashion and beauty. Just look attractive and approachable, you’ll have men beating down your door.

I met my current boyfriend online, but many of the guys I dated were classmates or friends of friends I met while socializing. My exes are startup CEOs, VC/PEs, Forbes List alumni, CT surgeons, HLS grads, etc. I’m a racial minority, grew up straddling the low to middle class strata, definitely wasn’t born into this crowd and still struggle to find my place in society to this day.

HTH.

[Anonymous]

Get a PhD or law degree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ambitious, rich guys now want to end up with their coworkers, not their secretaries. Go to an elite grad school, get a high paying job yourself, land a colleague. Then when your career schedules are too much with kids you can slide back into the cushy role you want.

Right-like Bill & Melinda Gates.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ambitious, rich guys now want to end up with their coworkers, not their secretaries. Go to an elite grad school, get a high paying job yourself, land a colleague. Then when your career schedules are too much with kids you can slide back into the cushy role you want.

Right-like Bill & Melinda Gates.

Zuckerbergs met at school, Harvard.

[Anonymous]

School or work are great places to meet rich ambitious men. Gates and Zuckerberg both went and dropped out of Harvard.

[Anonymous]

1. Get a graduate business degree at a top 10 B-school
2. Get a great job at a great company.
3. Dress professionally but with some style and flair.
4. Work your butt off and get noticed for your brains not just your looks.
5. Do the above and you will attract an ambitious and potentially rich guy.

Worked for me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wherever you are in life, you will need to multiply your salary by at least 5 times, aim for the guys in that demographic. The will see you as cute, adorable and in need of saving.

As others have said, dress the part. You need to learn to keep your comments to yourself, have a hidden element of a wild horse that needs taming, and be available. Not a doormat, or pushover but able to prioritize them.

Baseline smarts are enough, keep that side of yourself to yourself. Quirky and a little different is good. You need to bring something that the other women are not bringing to the relationship.

High earners come with big egos. It might not be obvious immediately, but they have them.

How do i know . . . I sit with them in meetings all the time. I have three family members that are wealthy men and i am amazed at the women they are interested in. I don't agree with it, and much of this is against my personal beliefs . . . But i am still getting up in the morning to go to work too.Good luck.

This is pretty spot on

[Anonymous]

Men look at the body first. Once you are in good shape wear jeans or pants that show this and a nice bougie blouse and good shoes. I would also invest in a high-quality but not obviously luxury handbag. Like a PP said, you do have to have that something that is a little different. You must be able to conform when appropriate but convey a sense of spontaneity and adventure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wherever you are in life, you will need to multiply your salary by at least 5 times, aim for the guys in that demographic. The will see you as cute, adorable and in need of saving.

As others have said, dress the part. You need to learn to keep your comments to yourself, have a hidden element of a wild horse that needs taming, and be available. Not a doormat, or pushover but able to prioritize them.

Baseline smarts are enough, keep that side of yourself to yourself. Quirky and a little different is good. You need to bring something that the other women are not bringing to the relationship.

High earners come with big egos. It might not be obvious immediately, but they have them.

How do i know . . . I sit with them in meetings all the time. I have three family members that are wealthy men and i am amazed at the women they are interested in. I don't agree with it, and much of this is against my personal beliefs . . . But i am still getting up in the morning to go to work too.Good luck.

Could you clarify what comments need to be kept to oneself?

Listen to them, let your voice be heard but keep any strong disagreements to yourself. If what he believes is so egregious, then move on to the next one. You don't have time to argue with them. Realize that men like to have their own personal audiences for their thoughts, clap when you must but otherwise stay quite and enjoy the show. This is a learned art.

[Anonymous]

Set your sights on an older man and lavish him with everything he needs. They love eye candy so they still feel young. Just don't get old, or they'll tire of you quickly. It's quite easy to manipulate them. Been there, done that, just for fun. I certainly didn't want to marry one. I just wanted whatever I could get out of them without having to spend my own? money on anything. I married a cop.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ambitious, rich guys now want to end up with their coworkers, not their secretaries. Go to an elite grad school, get a high paying job yourself, land a colleague. Then when your career schedules are too much with kids you can slide back into the cushy role you want.

+1.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Set your sights on an older man and lavish him with everything he needs. They love eye candy so they still feel young. Just don't get old, or they'll tire of you quickly. It's quite easy to manipulate them. Been there, done that, just for fun. I certainly didn't want to marry one. I just wanted whatever I could get out of them without having to spend my own? money on anything. I married a cop.

See, honey, you can have it all!

[Anonymous]

Your best path is to start your own successful career and marry a guy that you really love. This what my wife did.

You can never be left broke and starting over in your 40’s with no resume when you’ve had a strong career.

[Anonymous]

this is such a no brainner. Dress well, be a good tennis player and/or a good golfer, and join a CC.

It is no secret that successful people play CC tennis or golf. That's where you will find a rich husband or sugar daddy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wherever you are in life, you will need to multiply your salary by at least 5 times, aim for the guys in that demographic. The will see you as cute, adorable and in need of saving.

As others have said, dress the part. You need to learn to keep your comments to yourself, have a hidden element of a wild horse that needs taming, and be available. Not a doormat, or pushover but able to prioritize them.

Baseline smarts are enough, keep that side of yourself to yourself. Quirky and a little different is good. You need to bring something that the other women are not bringing to the relationship.

High earners come with big egos. It might not be obvious immediately, but they have them.

How do i know . . . I sit with them in meetings all the time. I have three family members that are wealthy men and i am amazed at the women they are interested in. I don't agree with it, and much of this is against my personal beliefs . . . But i am still getting up in the morning to go to work too.Good luck.

Could you clarify what comments need to be kept to oneself?

Listen to them, let your voice be heard but keep any strong disagreements to yourself. If what he believes is so egregious, then move on to the next one. You don't have time to argue with them. Realize that men like to have their own personal audiences for their thoughts, clap when you must but otherwise stay quite and enjoy the show. This is a learned art.

Yes, I agree with the country club sentiment too but there are tons of rich guys doing everyday things. You don't want to spend all your money on a country club membership. You might try getting a part time job at one, you know they love to marry their nannies. Most importantly, when you go about your everyday activities (choose areas that they will live in) SMILE. Be approachable, stay off your phone and if you must, look up, smile and then look down again. If he is interested, he will stare at you. A wealthy man looking to attract a mate will spread his wings like a peacock.

As with any kind of attraction . . . attitude is everything! Don't waste your precious time on the ones looking for FWB, or other such nonsense.